I am married, I totally have a major crush on someone else...I am not happy, ever, except when I see him and he talks to me....I wonder how long I can live my life while miserable...

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  • F*** "communicating better with your husband".
    That's not going to work and you know it.
    The only logical thing for you to do is enbage in an affair.
    The duration will depend on how well you and he get along sexually and emotionally.
    Your misery will only be mitigated when you make him your lover and seek solace in his bed.
    And don't think you're alone. Millions of women have affais every year and for a majority, thier marrieages are better for it, or at least more bearable.

  • Start communicating better with your husband. There is clearly a "disconnect" between the two of you. What precisely do you admire about your "crush"? I'm guessing he has qualities/behaviors that make you feel good that are absent in your husband. Discuss with your husband how he might be able to make you feel more loved, respected, etc. Conversely, get over the crush and focus 100% on loving your husband. Put your energies there.

  • You're married, you will live the rest of your ever loving life in complete and total misery.

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