When he wants it

On the outside my wife and I appear as normal conservative middle class and to the most part we are.

However she is submissive and I am dominant. In public not so obvious. We both have university degrees and professional jobs. She is very competent.

Sitting with a group of friends and friends of friends and the couple across the table must have been talking to the people beside them when the wife says across the table "how often do you have **"?

My wife whispers in my ear: "what do I tell them"? I respond to her: "whatever you like my love".

She says back to them: "whenever he wants wants it"

I confess to feeling a little uncomfortable but it's the truth.

This is a second marriage for both of us. We both have kids from our previous marriages. When we were dating we discussed all sorts of things. Religious beliefs, money, housing, power and control. And of course **.

We agreed that men have a higher ** drive than women. This can lead to frustration and bitterness. The end result of these discussions was that she was comfortable with me just saying that I wanted ** and she'd give it to me. I don't need to do foreplay. She does not have to be turned on. I just tell her what I want and she does it. It's so nice. We both know our roles. Very occasionally she'll be aroused and then I'll help her **. But most of the time it's just me getting it the way I want.