older man

I am secretly seeing a much older man that attends my church. He is not married but I dont understand why we have to still be secretive about our relationship. I am falling in love with him and dont know what to do. Any suggestions?
He appears to care a lot for me and does things for me that no man ever has it started off being I would have s** with him for money but it has grown into much more than that I must admit that I would not have even dreamed of falling for a man nearly twice my again but love like God works mysteriously.

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  • people are people. You might have this idea you should fall in love like some movie and it has a script and it is shallow and trendy, but once you start to connect to a person then it is the richness of the personality you begin to be interested in.

    When I was younger I met women much older than I was and some were like children and silly others were amazing people.

    I have had lovers 20 years younger than I was an felt no age difference and other times where I felt I was trying to converse with an alien.

    I have had lovers who looked very homely, but had amazing minds and they excited me, I've dated models some who were interesting and others who were vapid, and the latter could not interest me at all sexually even though they did pose for vogue and were some of the most beautiful women in the world.

    I find as an older man I am more relaxed. I know more things and am calm and interested in the woman I am with. When she is much younger, but has an eager in inquisitive mind, then it feels natural if we become lovers.

    I think you have met a mind you like. S** is 99% mental, well great s** is.

  • wow

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