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Such is my life.
I have the problem that I can't stand up to her. I mean if it were just physical of course I am bigger and stronger. But it is emotional and she is like a mental terrorist. In 15 years of marraige my guess is that she has apologized 2 maybe 3 times for issues or fights that we have been in. For me I have learned to just give in early and say that I am sorry. (which is actually true, I am sorry that we have to treat each other so poorly). I guess that I fear living alone. I have been married twice and since I was 17 years old I have only had 2 years that I have not been with a woman. I question if I really love her or is it that I just have a need to love and she happens to benefit from that. I could go on and on of all the things I have alowed her to do and say that emasculate me. Such is my life. And most of the time I am OK with it.
OP here. OK so we are watching Monday night football and she goes to watch something else in the back room. I checked on her about an half a half hour later and she was sleeping. So I returned to watch the game. I went to join her early in the fourth quarter. She woke up as I started moving things in the bedroom. Then she gets up and walks into the living room and says something to get our son upset. I walk in and she yells at me "you always let him get away with everything". I say "whatever" and walk to the back of the house. She follows me back, yelling at me. She says " it is your fault, I was sleeping. If you would have left me alone none of this would have happened". I slept in the spare room.
Hey bud, I'm in the same boat. You described it down to a tee.
Let me know how everything goes and what you end up doing.
that is a sad way to go. dont be scared to be alone. its probably exactly what you need.