friends with benefits

i'm VERY seriously contemplating having an affair with a married man at work. i'm married too and happy but this man makes me feel like a teenager- i get butterflies just thinking of him. We've discussed it at length and agreed that we will never leave our spouses for each other- this would strictly be a friends with benefits kind of thing. i don't know what to do.

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  • Don't do someone whose husband has *possibly* been unfaithful...I feel sick just thinking about it and not knowing.

  • I watched a documentary about this sort of same situation with a man and his family. He grew infatuated with another woman but his wife knew of it and understood that infatuation and wasn't threatened. He stayed away from the other woman and kinda sulked and seemed depressed, but the feelings passed. The wife was funny. Talking how marriage is like a fire pit with its glowing embers under the ash, but you need to stick a log in the fire to stir it up. Funny how she put it.

  • this is the author again. the most honest thing i can say is that i'm filled with warm love for my husband and hot l*** for this man. i want to do things with him that i never dreamed of with my husband, who is the only man i've ever slept with

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