I started dating a girl when I was 14 and we were with each other till i was 22. We have been apart now for almost 4 years. I am now in a relationship with another girl and I love her a lot and she wants to get married. I still dream of my ex at least twice a week and I cant seem to get over her. I dont know what to do.

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  • Wait, that is what you need to do. If you have strong feelings toward the first girl, then take her to lunch and tell her you still have feelings for her. If she does not have those feelings for you then you will know it and it will be easier to move on. If she does still feel that way then start dating again. That is exactly what I did. My ex wife said that she did not want me back so I felt the emotional freedom to move on.

  • you were with that girl for a long time so its normal to think about that once in a while
    but you will get over it after spending more time with your new girlfriend
    goodluck :)

  • everything happens for a reason... it will all work out in the end
    if you were meant to be it will work out sooner or later

  • im having exactly the same situation as ex boy friend who was my first love...i still miss him..
    sometimes i feel i am not doing justice with my current man..
    but im also confused abt my true feelings
    i cant return to my ex bf bcoz he has been dating other girls :(
    he slept with other girls :(
    i love him and hate him at the same time..

    i will get marry soon to my new boy frnd quite soon... i like him he is a nice guy..but..i can never give him the true love..

    sometimes i feel that i leave this planet and go somewhere very far..with my ex....or alone! i dont knw? :(

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