My boyfriend who is 16 years older than

My boyfriend who is 16 years older than me is in the process of breaking up with me. He is divorced, rich, has a company, works in the same field as mine, has a son 22 years of age, he is educated with a MD and PhD. But he is not looking to get married or have even has just one kid. Yet, he demanded regular s**. Also, he is quite unforgiving and never admits his fault. On the other hand, I just met a nice young guy in the neighorhood, 6-7 years younger than me (I am 30), hard working, does construction, has little money, he does not even have a bachelor's degree. His mom does't seem to like me because we are of different race. I feel stupid because I cannot even choose, I don't even know where my heart goes or what is best for me or for my future. I feel stupid that at this age I am still struggling whereas other people I know already have a family of their own and beautiful kids. What's wrong with me?

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  • I have no sympathy for women that hook up with men 10+years older then themself. He probably found someone younger.

  • A 30 year old going with a 46 year old... not much wrong there. An adult is an adult. I'd worry that he's not really serious about your relationship. Its all one long date, with no commitment. You might be better off finding someone else to grow old with. You also seem to value the amonut the man makes, to ease you insecurity of safety in the future? That really shouldn't be part of finding someone to love, and should only be abonus when he is well off. Some men hate gold diggers, some cater to them.
    Marriage and kids is not all its cracked up to be.

  • wow , you are funny , you go from being controlled to wanting to control seems your relationship did one thing for you and that is have you wanting to control someone else , sounds like you have father issues as well , nothing wrong with the age difference but i think you need friends for a miinute ,

  • I think you should look at the second guy (the young one) and see if he has potential to be the kind of man you want, and also if he wants the smae things you want right now, being he is only 23-24. Otherwise, don't give up, keep looking, but get away frome the old perv!

  • You said it twice. What is wrong with you is you are stupid. Dump the rich dude and stear clear of the younger guy unless you just want some good s** for a while. If you wan a heart felt relationship with more promise you need to be smarter than you are.

  • what a loser. the man who's 16 years older that is. he obviously can't get anyone his own age so he's a pervert.

  • Marriage and kids is not all its cracked up to be.

  • A 30 year old going out with a 46 year old... not much wrong there. An adult is an adult. I'd worry that he's not really serious about your relationship. Its all one long date, with no commitment.
    You might be better off finding someone else to grow old with.
    You also seem to value the amount the man makes, to ease your insecurity of safety in the future? That really shouldn't be part of finding someone to love, and should only be a bonus when he is well off.
    Some men hate gold diggers, some cater to them.

  • Get someone more your age! 16 years is toooooooo much

  • ur upset and low confident cos ur bf is breaking up with you, you are seeing the other guy cos he makes you feel bit better about yourself and is not so much of a theat. leave them both alone has some me time and find someone more suited to you

  • u stated tht ur bf is in da process ov breaking up wif u. wtf?! learn some proper english

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