I'm so stupid

I have a friend who really really wants me.
I mostly just see this guy as a friend. I've had passing thoughts and ideas of what we would be like as a couple but it was never anything serious and they were just thoughts, not desires.

I like someone else a lot more but I'm unsure if he feels the same and I don't want to wait around for something to happen because if he doesn't like me, I'll be waiting around forever.

My friend is really wearing me down.
I've been watching a teen show lately where one of the boys really likes this girl he knows and even though he could probably get other girls, it's not the same and he really wants this one girl. I keep wishing for the boy on the show to get together with that girl and I guess I could fulfill my friend's same situation by asking him out. Even if I don't like him, I'd feel better about making that happen for him because I assume he'd feel the same way that I would feel if the guy I'm really into asked me out, if that makes sense.

I'm so confused. I don't know what to do.

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  • That is stupid. If you are this guys friend you wouldn't just go out with him if you don't feel the same. You wouldn't be a good friend if you did that. It's better to leave him wanting then him thinking you want the same things!
    Argh!

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