I found out my husband & I are having a

I found out my husband & I are having a baby. He is very happy. Me...I dont know what to feel. I just feel weird. I want children, and I always thought that when I found out I was having a baby, I would be over joyed, Butinstead I feel numb, scared, freaked out. I am 30 years old, this is the time to do it, but I feel like we don't have enough money, we don't have a house...there are so many things going on in my head. My husband, I think, doesn't fully understand the concept of a child. I am the one who worries...
I watched my sister in law, on thursday, in labor. I was so scared for her, and me cause, if all goes well that will be me.


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  • HAVE YOU EVER TOLD YOUR HUSBAND; "I LOVE YOU"? Now practice it; show it by giving him this child!

  • You will be fine as soon as you hold your baby for the first time, you will be the happiest woman on the planet. I have been trying to have a baby for 6 months and starting to think there is something wrong with me. Babie are blessings.

  • you will never be READY for a child. It changes everything about you. But that's the whole point, isn't it?

  • Dont worry be happy. Take everything one day at a time just like everything. Educate yourself on all things baby. That is very empowering!

  • Dont worry youre normal. Be sure to get a DOULA. Dont waste your money on prenatal classes,their goal is to teach you to shut up and be an obedient patient.

    www.naturalchild.org click on "articles"

    Co-sleeping prevents SIDS

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