I'm almost 40. I'm married with children. I'm gay.

I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you other than stay strong.

i am seperated.with 1girl.and i myself are90%lesbian and i am dateing by boss who is married.good on you i can say PETRICA GEE FROM HIGH WYCOMBE IS A LESBIAN

I slept with two women and kissed another, before I was married. I was never in a dating relationship with a woman.

Do you act on it outside your marriage? If so...can I watch? haha...j/k...sort of. Anyway...did you act on it before you were married- meaning have you had lesbian experiences or just been a mental thing that is now bursting to get out?

I'm the OP. I am the wife.

I think you need to talk to your wife about it. U can only be truly happy in life if your happy with yourself. If not you will continue to be miserable and unhappy. It's nit fair to your wife either.