Afraid and Lost husband is having an affair, and I've let myself become so dependent on him that I don't even know where to start to separate. I don't think I can do it on my own. We're common law, I'm a stay at home mom, with my name on absolutely no titles or bills. I am so scared, lonely and lost.

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  • The worst feeling in the world is feeling trapped. Being hurt, wanting something better but paralyzed and unable to go for it. Where your at is a scary lonely place but your tRaped only by your own fear. Yupt sound like a good mother give yourself that. You've raised a child and that child is dependant on you. Your strong enough to do this! Go to a church, turn to trusted loved ones, h*** post on craigs list. Take baby steps but get yourself out! You and your child deserve better! Good luck! ~ mystic

  • Here is my advice, go get a credit card under your name that will start you off with a credit history and then slowly start putting money away but not in a bank account until you have enough to stay in a hotel for a few weeks plus food etc. Also start collecting evidence that he is cheating so when you get a divorce you will get most of the money from the settlement. You need to get away from this man he is toxic and you need to learn to get out on your own. You are the only person who can change your life so if your not happy get the strength up and do something about it! Don't let this man make you unhappy and ruin your life. Good luck!

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