I hold grudges
You lied to me for months about your finances, even after I offered you help you said everything was under control. You dug us into a hole so deep it took months for ME to dig us out. You apologized and promised to make it up, again a lie, you've done nothing. You never get anything at all acomplished, I do it all.
I hold grudges, and after twelve years, you know this about me. So after I got us out of your hole and took over ALL finances, I found a guy at work that needed a little cash, and offered to help. I helped him get an apartment, and even bought him some furniture. I then began to go over there to get away from you. I told him I was just a tease and wouldn't cheat on you, but I knew that was a lie. After months of playing the flirt, I kissed him. After weeks of built up excitement and sexual tension, I f***** him. What you did was wrong and intentional, what I did is worse and I didn't want to take it that far in the begining, but now I don't want to stop.
Don't lie to me, I get mad, I get even, then I end up hating myself!