I am 39 and approaching 40 really soon

find that bridge and jump off it.

It is never to late to change something,

Life begins at 40! And they are right you know: it's never to late! (remember the granny in her 80's who made a rap album?)

its NEVER too late.

...dude go hunting or clubbing

why is it too late? too late for what you want to do? what do you want to do?

it is, deal with it