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I hate my step daughter
I hate my adult step daughter with a passion. After 10 years of putting up with her snidey comments, treating my house like a hotel and me like staff, I finally told her to ** off and get out of my life. I mean what is a 23yr old doing still doing bludging off her parents? The nasty piece of work only calls her father when she wants something. After travelling around Europe for the 4th time she has the audacity to whinge that her car needs to be updated and that she hasnt finished her degree. OMG what a WASTE of space.
I said to her father, I will no longer tolerate her rudeness and general bad attitude in my house. If she can't be polite or civil to me then she needn't bother coming around anymore. This message was passed on so she decided that she wasnt coming around anymore. My husband now accuses me of banning her from the house. This, because she can't be civil to me in my own home so chooses not to come here ugh! The manipulative little ** now cries to her father and hes the reason she is such a spoilt nasty piece of work.
She will not split my marriage up.
Jesus H Christ on a popsicle stick...lmao! Do all you step-"moms" hating on children, realize you're hating on CHILDREN? Not ur college roommate or the bitchy preppy girl in high school that your boyfriend stared up and down daily wishing he could f***, but CHILDREN? Let that sink in for a moment before you start writing your defense to this post.
Regardless, of what a "loser" you may think she is or how she's "sabotaging" your marriage to her Dad, it may help all of you to play Devils advocate for a moment and put yourself in her shoes. Look at different perspectives as to why she is the way she is, which will probably give you more insight, a more forgiving attitude, and a better understanding of her. And all of that would lead to a more honest, loving and fulfilling marriage with the man you say you love.
Imagine what you're doing to her Dad in this "fight for his love" between the two of you. You're forcing your husband to choose between you and his daughter. That's not fair nor right and you know it. If you are seriously fighting for his undivided attention, love and admiration 24-7 with a child, that in my opinion, is selfish, childish, shallow, immature af, and quite the loser any way you cut it.
None of us are perfect, including you so-called step-moms wishing death and torment upon your step-children. Who's to say that people from your past weren't saying those exact same things about you at that age or **, probably currently as well? You'd be better served displaying kindness to others, including your stepchildren, versus anger, hostility and resentment. Js.
Truly spoken like someone that has NEVER had the “privilege” of helping to raise a stepchild. Your obvious ignorance of the pitfalls of being a stepparent makes your “comments” and your “opinions” both useless and mind numbing. The world of being a stepparent that you see through your “rose colored glasses” does not exist and your narrowness of mind concerning the subject gives you ZERO credibility when attacking stepparents.