I hate my step daughter

So July 29th is my stepdaughter’s birthday and I absolutely hate everything about the ** day. This time of year is terrible because it just reminds me of how she should’ve never been born. I’ve heard people say that children are never a mistake but this little ** is definitely a mistake. I hope she chokes on a piece of ** cake and dies! She’s the absolute worst thing in this planet and i no longer want to waste any of this family’s time or money on that stupid ** brat.

Err I have a confession I'm a 35 year old dude and have annoying cousins, adult ** more like it that never really grew up and act like childish **. Short of living on the streets or in prison I would kill to be anywhere away from such nasty family. High above some Appalachian mountains, lost in the Amazon ** even a cave anywhere would be better than such company. Its worse because they have children of their own, and act like their some majestic beings from the clouds. Here to judge the lesser life forms, and teach them their narcissistic ways. What are their children like you ask like? As worse as the effin parents. My old man recently had a brush with death my ** of a cousin, I wish I could maul to death with a club, as I maniacally laugh as her daughter watches on. Anyway my old man got to see her fangs for the first time, and pulled me aside to ask wtf is wrong with her to which I implied you tell me. Which surprised me because he actually did tell me, she apparently lost her sense of control and started yelling at him losing her cool completely she stormed out of our house and drove off. For what you ask? He simply asked her if there was anything wrong and only pressed a little because she didn't answer the question. At which point she went ballistic short of braking any of our furniture.

Thank god im not alone!
I absolutely despise my ugly, nasty, horrible, pathetic, waste of space, oxygen thief stepdaughter.
She is annoying, selfish, boring, cringey, whinging, spoilt little **.
I wish she would go and live with her father, she creates an awful atmosphere and yet she thinks she is amazing?
She thinks if a leaf blows off a tree and lands by her that it is a gift from the tree because she is so wonderful. She is a parasite.
She is pathetic, she is thick as two planks and has nothing good about her. She is fake and jealous of everything.

Frustrations vented. Thanks for reading

Hopefully she ** dies. She sounds like a waste of resources!

Thank you. Like you read my mind!😎

Lol very well put. I can relate

Get the fake and jealous part.

Its not the children, it’s the man/woman you married. If you’re SO cannot stand up for reasonable boundaries and put your marriage on even, but different ground than their children then stop blaming the kids. Look at who you are married to ffs.

I’m really not sure how someone could love the product of a past mistake that they didn’t make? I can’t stand my stepdaughter, she’s a spoiled girl. She was born and basically had everyone else but her parents to raise her because she was a mistake-really neither parent were ready or wanted her. Her days are spent on school and after school programs and weekends are spent being raised by grandparents or her daycare. She is an absolute animal and is probably the dumbest child I’ve ever met.

She isn’t allowed near my daughter because I don’t like the idea of having someone else’s kid be considered family. That other nasty kid is rude, spoiled, and a terrible example for my quickly developing daughter. She also doesn’t partake in family activities and I’m really happy that she’s not a part of my family because my daughter will grow up understanding how a real family works.

My stepdaughter (I don’t even like calling it that) wastes more time and money than she’s worth and always asks what “presents” or “surprises” she’s going to get. I’d love to give her a huge cupcake full of x lax and raw chicken-surprise **. Happy birthday hope you get dysentery and salmonella!

Did I mention she was born on July 27 or 28th? I can never remember which day because it’s never important enough and the day she was born was probably the day Lucifer sucked up this **’s soul, hence why she turned out to be one ugly soul less ** pale ** ginger.

I hope she gets a pile of ** on her birthday, that’s all she deserves really.

This is so so so disgusting I wish I knew who you were so I could ring child services

The child needs love love love ..

You should be upset with Dad, he's the only one that can change it, and you need to set boundaries with Dad first

My ** stain sd needs a gun gun gun

Im sorry you have to suffer with her. I feel the exact same way about both my step daughter spawns from ** it is pure torture everyday my boyfriend has full custody of them and their mom barely wants to see them they are so horrible. They constantly need daddys attention but they are 14 and 17 old enough to ** off amd leave us alone but they dont i never get quality time with him unless they are in school then i got to go to work and dont get to cherish their away time. And its funny you mention birthday my step daughters birthday is next week and i would also like to put laxitives in her slice of birthday cake and slugs and bugs like the nasty parasite she is

Lol

Move can you move if he’s willing

Ha ha ! I wish mine move but they won’t because they need daddy’s financial help. Both lazy and uneducated low self steem pigs with a dysfunctional mother their life’s are similar. I often laugh at their miserable lives and struggles- it sounds horrible but I enjoy it so very much that they got very little education and resources and they struggle financially And emotionally. I know it’s mean but I do. My husband tells me he’s disappointed in both of them and how embarrassed by how they have turn out, basically calling them WT recently now more then ever. He lives them but often says he does not want to too much time with them. Their children (GK) will part of the same nasty cycle of dysfunction. I keep our child away from them, they horrible examples and he often refers to them as his fathers a kids. I don’t want to be or want my child to be associated with at all.

I absolutely hate my stepdaughter, I threw out all of her baby pictures, sonogram, and everything that is a memory of her. Nothing that belongs to her, made by her, or resembles her is allowed in this family home. I make my husband throw out her pictures and rip them up because that ugly piece of trash doesn’t deserve to be remembered. He’s not allowed to have pictures of her on his phone, and her name isn’t to be mentioned in this home. I have a daughter with my husband and she is not allowed to see or talk to his mistake. I refuse to have her think she is anything but an only child, that other ** can go ahead and grow up to be a spoiled, entitled, little ** all she wants-shes not allowed near my daughter or my family.

Your a horrible person.. he should pack his stuff and leave u and burn all ur **!

Good for you. I feel the same as you about mine.

Omg I threw out my stepdaughters sonogram and baby scrapbook too! I don’t want her memories to ruin my home, my home is a place where I can enjoy my family! I don’t need his mistakes ** up the aura in my home, your post really touched my soul because I thought I was the only person who did this.

I actually had his stepdaughter give my daughter some sort of toy as a gift when she was born and I gave it to the dog as a chew toy because my daughter doesn’t need anything from that piece of **. She often gives stupid gifts like bracelets and they all end up in the trash, nobody here wants to be reminded that she’s alive and breathing lol

Oh my, you nasty, evil pathetic woman. How can you have the love and respect of your husband and others when you act this way? I feel so sorry for your stepdaughter who has to look at you.

Wow your husband needs to grow a pair and leave you if he lets treat him this way with his child

Same here. No trace of her anywhere in our home and not going to be. And her name is never mentioned with the exception of when I refer to her as lard a**. I've told hubby he should have had a DNA test taken years ago. Lard A** doesn't look like her mother or him. Maybe she looks like the mailman. Who knows. She has red hair and there is no one with red hair on mom or dad's side of the family. I've spent the past 26 yrs. treating her like she doesn't exist. I care so little about her I don't even know her exact age. Somewhere between 25 to 30 I think. When ask if we have kids I've always answered NO. Wish she wouldn't finish eating herself into oblivion.

Horrible! You should’ have thrown out her pictures and stuff. Those are irreplaceable. You never tell what happened to make you do so either. The smart, calmer thing to have done was to box them up and put them away somewhere.

Same here! No pics anywhere my house. Nope!! And I also put in a trash all their pic n if I find something of their that’s it’s been giving to him by them I’ll put in the garbage.

My husband went to go see his stepdaughter today (he gets 2 days a month because that’s as much as I’ll allow him to take any time away from his REAL family). Hopefully one day he stops seeing her altogether and just forgets about that mentally challenged mistake he made. She acts like a 3 year old when she’s 6 and she looks like she’s some sort of autistic little brat. I hate her and hope she kills herself before she wastes anyone else’s money or time.

How can u hate a 6 year old! U need to grow up! And thats all u allow it isnt the babies fault she is here.. u should kill urself for being a horible pos!

I know how you feel.

Wow you sound like a loving **

I went on this confession because I wanted to see what other halves think of the step children, this is absolutely DISGUSTING those children have triple the hearts you have you all should be ashamed of yourselves wish I could call child services to get you all locked up

Just remember he was with her mom b4 you and your kid will be the next woman’s step kid

Your having a go at a 6 year old little girl ..Who act like a 3 year old brat ..More like you need to grow up ..Women ..Your just a waste of space ..your toxic waste of sewage ..That all you are ..

You are evil as **

Gosh really, you need to get a divorce

I don’t hate my SD, but I hate how she makes me feel. I love kids but sadly can’t have any of my own. I met my SD when she was 4
years old. Naturally she was very confused and so I decided the best thing to do was take it slow with her, afford her time with her Dad without me around all the time. She was also very jealous of me being too close or showing him affection so out of respect I was very conscious of this and made every effort not to upset her. I thought In time as our relationship grew and we became closer I could show affection to both her and her Dad. sadly 5 years later I’m still in the same boat except now I just don’t like her and I hate myself for that. It makes me so sad that I can’t like her, nevermind love her! I feel I am letting her Father down, and I am. But what do I do? I love my husband and I don’t want to give up. So I just keep going, giving my SD and her Dad time together while I sit on my own most Saturdays, never dare show my husband any affection in front of my SD, watch her get her way at every opportunity. Daddy’s little princess. She will never accept me. So it’s this way or the highway for me. :(

First of all your a beautiful Mum to your step daughter ..It your fault you should have showed affection to your husband infront of his 4 year old daughter as time went on ..Also allowing g that time alone with her dad ..Should not have been every Saturday ..You all should start giving each other Hugs & show effection to each other .You can't expect to love ..Love grows Why don't you all decide to go to the beach or a Picnic ..Remember she is his daughter & his little princess & Your his wife ..His Queen & the 3 of you together is Royalty ..I beleive you such a a I g women .. How about you & his daughter have a girly thing together ..do her hair or nails ..Ride a bike ..Take her outfit lunch just the 2 of you alone

I have been in my SD life for 10 years since she was 7 ..she lives with us full time and visits her mom a couple weekends a month. I have done everything a mom should do including being involved with her schools and classes, first bra shopping, washing her hair for her, doing her laundry cooking her meals picking her up and dropping her off to all a kids events..it has made no difference if they are allowed to be disrespectful they will continue to be until your husband puts a stop to it and if he won’t you will never be treated the way you deserve..don’t waste anymore time waiting for your love and understanding and giving of yourself to make a difference you NEED to get your husband to listen to you now..

This I agree with.

Stop. Stop letting her control what you do or don’t do. You’re right. She will never accept you. That’s her choice. But do not let her choices affect your’s. Love your husband. Show affection. Go sit with him. Snuggle on the couch. Put some boundaries in place that protect your ability to feel safe in your own home. She doesn’t like it. Too bad. She’ll have to finally work through some of her baggage. You’re not making things better by doing what your doing. Trust me. I did it for 11 years. I’m done. If it’s that way or the highway. Pack your self respect and go. Xoxo

No man or woman will ever feel safe or live you if you hate their kids. All of you need to get the ** out of these relationships. The only parasites are the spouses creating hate and disease within the families that were there before you. GROW UP!!

I didn’t say I hate her, I said I hate myself because I don’t like her. I think you need to grow up and understand life is not always a fairytale. End of the day, a few months later and things are much better, not perfect but things never will be, it’s a complicated history with my husbands ex wife causing all sorts of hurst and pain. So why don’t you mind your own business and get off your high horse. Even better, get off this site.

And my step daughter is always safe in our home and in my care. That goes without saying!

I have learned after 10 years that grown spoiled step daughters hate to see their dads happy. They think you will come along and take their attention.. One of mine has been married her husband has cheated on her 4 times. My husband and I have had a rocky marriage because of his two grown spoiled ** daughters that feel entitled. He says they just don't want to see us go through another argument. Well they have caused most of those but, he would not say so. So what do you do ?

I hearing you ..I have 5 Adult stepchildren ..& 2 Childten of my own ..We have been together now for 18 year ..I meet my husband at the time his youngest daughter was 18 my step daughter lived with us ..Of course we had our ups & downs ..I found as time we would Clash ..It Was hard ..Because we as Adults .Excepted a man to love us ..Also we had to share him with his children ..When we married .I had to also expected the package that came with it ..Now all the kids have all grown into Adults & Hsve there own famies & lives ..Some have been married some did no work out ....My step children also keep in Contact with their own Mother ..Which is great to see ..But my husband & I have had problems with the step children .Thry come to me or there dad ..They don't go to there mum ..I always asked how there Mum's going ..We have to remember as wive's .My husband had a wife & had Children ..& they will forever be a part of his life & mine . I too had children in my marriage in the pass as well ..As he too has to expect my children ..Don't worry I have not had it easy as well ..t times I I felt like leaving the marriage ..I final found & understood .It a different love that we have for our Husband's or wives ..But we must understand A Father or Mother Bond to their Child .is genetic ..But someone else child we grow to bond ...And to build on that solid foundation ..It can take years ..There might need some adjustsments to be made ..But we will be great ..Of course we as
..What I do is try & get my husbands children together we all go out for dinner every 6 months ..I do t have Christnas at home with his Adult Child ..We all. Meet at a all you can eat Buffet ..Se go around Xmas eve which works out cheaper ..It's important that you & your husband have quaintly time together ..You both need thst balance & Romance ..Remember don't leave ha g I. There ..Your step daughters s Spoilt princess ..They go home ..But remember you married a life time & your his Queen 👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽

Cry. lol. No, idk. Either the man gets it together or we all rot away waiting. Not the child's or adult child fault really.

To get rid of your stepdaughter for good, constantly talk about your s*x life whenever she's around. Say how good her father (or mother) is in bed and how you guys just love to F**K. Be VERY graphic. Do it every single time she comes to visit. Works like a charm. I did this every single time daddy's little accident came to visit and now she wants nothing to do with us because we're always talking about our "nasty s*x". I couldn't be happier!! You're welcome!!

You're a **. She will always mean more to him than you do, because SHE is his CHILD. All you are is his current ** toy.

I hope your husband sees what you called his precious child, and dumps your sorry a$$.

Really???? U r kidding ? His daughter trying to be the big ** campus ? Well she can learn to take the punches !!

If she cared about DADDY she would respect DADDYS WIFE!!!!! Bible says Wife 💕

Wtf ... u show hate... u call her a mistake and then u throw the Bible in there? Are u ** serious... pick a side **

I suppose your kids are a ** accident as well ..Your to I. Waste of space you Fucken sewage

That's an absolutely disgusting lack of boundaries and bordering on sexually predatorial behavior.

Love it! I
Might try this though thankfully I set the boundaries several years ago 5-6 n I’m not to be pressure to be around them or for them to come to my home, if they do they use the back door, And they don’t stay very long. Like the help they use back door so I never to seem by me so I don’t have to be annoyed by their presence. Either I get things my way or I’ll hit the rd, he has to make a choice. He chooses me n our child.

To get rid of your stepdaughter for good, constantly talk about your ** life whenever she's around. Say how good her father (or mother) is in bed and how you guys just love to F**K. Be VERY graphic. Do it every single time she comes to visit. Works like a charm. I did this every single time daddy's little accident came to visit and now she wants nothing to do with us because we're always talking about our "nasty **". I couldn't be happier!! You're welcome!!

Yeah, and etched is stone is your legacy of being a total pervert

My stepdaughter is such a ** little manipulative lying **! Enough that I’m ready to leave her, her mom and her brother!

I would love to beat the ** out of my stepdaughter. Whoever invented the term “beat them like a stepchild” is truly a genius.

I have this stepdaughter named Olivia and I’ve never hated Olives before but ever since I met her I hate everything that reminds me of her. She smells like ** all the time, she’s dirty, crusty, unfeminine, always has a dumb look on her face, has disgusting tangled and dirty hair...looks like she’s been raised by animals.

All she ever does is ask for presents and expects more and more **. She doesn’t appreciate small gestures because she’s been taught to be a ** brat. Ever since the birth of my daughter all I could think of is how amazing it would be if my stepdaughter could just go away and never ever effect us again. She wastes time, takes time and money away from his true family and she deserves nothing. She should have been aborted.

You are a horrible person. And you need to remember that your husband's CHILD will always mean more to him than you ever will. All you are is the thing he has ** with. His daughter is his Flesh and Blood. Just remember one thing, when you die, your name CAN be removed from her father's headstone. By her. That's what we did with my husband's step monster. Bought a new headstone without her name on it. It was hilarious. We celebrated her death over dinner.

Who the f#&* are you to judge someone on their anonymous confession? Probably a ** hurt step daughter..

You’re a disgusting piece of **. You are probably one the the evil little ** disgusting “daddy’s little girl” hopefully you get someone just as bad as you are you stupid little **!!! You make me sick for what you said and makes me realize why I hate my own stepdaughter because she’s just as evil as you. You will rot in ** for what you did!! Ever think that maybe they didn’t want the headstone changed, no because it’s all about you. You’re a spoiled little ** too and one day I hope you get what’s coming to you!!! Wish I could beat your ** **!

You also sound like a horrible person. A Step Mother isn’t just someone to have s.. with! It takes work from every blended family member to make things work! People make mistakes and marry the wrong people and have kids from that mistake, that doesn’t mean that kid is a mistake. People can move on and remarry and be happy! But you can’t have one person behaving badly regardless. I know u get nasty step mothers out there, nasty step fathers, SD , SS but come on, to imply SM are just for s.. how wrong you are! Deluded if you think a father can’t love his wife just as much as his kid! It’s a totally different kind of love! you sound like a very bitter, nasty person yourself!

Well said. Bravo!

Actually when I die, my daughter will ensure my stepdaughter gets nothing and no say in what happens to her fathers headstone :) since my daughter is really our one and only true daughter. The other piece of trash will also be left out of the will, she doesn’t do anything for this family. She never has, and never will be considered family. So you can be a jealous stepdaughter all you want, it’s because you really do know that deep down, your father never loved you enough to keep your family together. He remarried because YOU were not important and still aren’t important. He’s probably looking down at you wishing you died before he did.

I bet your father would have lived to celebrate your death over dinner. I would do the same thing if my stepdaughter died.

And I'll just bet that if "stepmonster" were alive she would have side two of that album. You sound just like a jealous hateful stepdaughter; you're so overwrought with jealousy and anger that you'd trip over your own stupid self just to diminish a ghost .

My stepdaughter called me a nasty name once and all I could think of is “wow you’re lucky I don’t want to go to jail because I would love to poison you and watch you die a slow and agonizing death”... my favorite thing to do is watch “evil stepmothers” on investigation discovery because it’s insane how we as stepmothers all feel the same hatred towards these little bratty mistakes. But the worst part is these fathers are stupid enough to feel bad for the little **, a real man takes care of the family that will one day take care of him when he’s old and the last time I checked, children from first marriages are never the ones trying to support their parents in their old age-they’re usually out doing stuffing cocaine up their nostrils and trying to prove they weren’t a mistake.

You're a disgusting excuse for a human being. I can assure you that your beautiful step daughter feels the same about you. His children are his family. Blood means more than **.

No it doesn’t, a man can leave his mother and father to die but still take care of his wife. My husband will always choose me over his “family” you sound like an entitled and spoiled ** stepchild... who’s jealous she’s not the center of ** attention. Newsflash: your family was broken and is still broken because nobody loved you enough to put you first before their needs. Sorry, that’s the way life goes.

You’re most likely an unwanted stepchild. Go preach somewhere else, everyone here hates useless stepkids like you. Just go kill yourselves, seriously....stepchildren are all mistakes.

Then why did you marry a man with kids you ** psychopath??? If my child had a stepparent like you, I would cut your ** brakes.

Not ALL are mistakes. My husband’s ex insisted on adopting a child even though they already had two healthy sons and he’d gotten a vasectomy and their marriage was failing. Long story short. Momma was in an out of mental institutions - got pregnant while in one. Slept with the boys karate instructor and ended up marrying him too and divorcing. They gave my SD to his brother and family to raise until she turned 18 and got married and thankfully moved across country. Her mother married another guy with kids (her third marriage) and 5 kids latter and divorced him shortly. Unfortunately her older (uglier) sister is married to my husband’s younger brother so I always running into her at family events and the B**** ALWAYS has something snarky to say to me. We’ll see here next month (May) at their 2nd son’s second wedding and I’m preparing my own comments to say to her jealous self this time. We’ve been married 20 years now longer than they were married and she hates it!

Go kill yourself! so creative. yawn.

Not necessarily. I have ** with my ex constantly, & it really upsets his stupid ** daughter. She's his "blood", he knows it upsets her, but he doesn't care.

What are you even talking about? You sound like your brain is blown on come yourself.

I have a stepdaughter who seriously is spoiled to death. She visits Chuck E. Cheese like once a month as if it’s her ** birthday every month, getting whatever the ** she wants and more. Just because her father feels bad for that little mistake. Not only was she receiving 900 dollars a month just so her and her mother could receive a lavish lifestyle, while we had to downgrade in every single way and ended up losing our nice apartment but she gets spoiled with ** presents too as if 900/mo and a ** 2 hour drive visit isn’t enough.

She won’t grow up to amount to any thing by anyway, just like her mother. So why even keep that ** thing alive? If you ask me her mother should have had an abortion to save everyone the grief of having to deal with such a spoiled ** kid. That little ** treats her father like an ATM and she doesn’t learn the value of ** money, every ** time she’s at Chuck E. Cheese her father has to pay for her to get whatever the ** she wants because she’s too much of a loser to understand what those tickets are really for. Her father is stupid for allowing her to be that retarded and hopefully one day he just sees her for the trashy brat she really is. He wastes way too much time, money, and effort towards this brat who shouldn’t even be alive.

It his fault .. Buying his love ..Give her nothing ..Just love & see that huge change

My husband used to send his ex money for their daughter and she not only didn’t live with her but I doubt she sent her a dime. I had him stop and send the money to his brother and family whom she stayed with. Her mother no longer got a dime. Hahaha. Lazy Wh*** that she was. She cheated on him with their sons Karate instructor and before that got pregnant with some kid after my husband’s vasectomy! She’s always a ** when we meet cause unfortunately her older sister is married to his younger brother. What was I thinking? But we’ve made it to 20 years this coming May thank God!

Memory care much? We just read your bigoted garbage one post ago.

Oohhh 900$ a month! How LAVISH. Jesus christ you sound backwoods.