Five years ago i worked as a sales exec in an i.t firm, it was my first real job after college and even though it wasnt my chosen field i eventually started to get into it.
About eight months into it my father who is a drug addict and a dead beat decided that he wanted to get married again.
Now the problem was that a few years earlier he had conned my older brothers into building a large villa abroad on land that that my father owned.
Now if my father got married my brothers would have to share there home with a new woman and when he died would have to provide for any brats she might push out.
My older brothers voted to send me out to stop my father from getting married at least until he signed over the house.
I had to quit my job move back home catch a nine hour flight and sit out on the equator for six months trying to get old fart to hold off on the wedding
When i got there the old man gave me run around refused to sign over the house but cancelled his wedding.
I came back to nothing and ever since have been unable to find another decent paying job. during the last five years i tried to hang my self twice spent time in a mental ward gone through long periods of isolation and depression and became a shut in. I put on seventy pounds and all my hair fell out, i have no contact with any of my old friends i havent been with a woman in five years and slowly my family are pushing me to go out and live with my father as a live in carer out in the third world while he smokes heroin and pot and slowly dies.
if I refuse they guilt me with lots of bullshit about family and obligations and tell me that i'm past being single and free and that its time for me to take some responsibility
but i dont see it that way, to me it looks like they dont want to deal with him anymore but dont want to be seen as callous and unfeeling and because i cant get it together in any real sense i'm getting handed a bag full of s***