I hope my boyfriend comes out! (I'm a girl!)
I'm pretty sure my ex-boyfriend is gay. (I'm a girl, we dated pretty seriously for a year and a half, we're still good friends.) That isn't what bothers me. I want him to be happy and I can tell that he isn't. It pains me to see him suppressing himself because I love him so much for who he is. I feel like he doesn't love himself the same way.
I'm terrified that he'll come out to some guy who will take advantage of him in such a vulnerable moment and break his heart. If he came out to me, I would jump into his arms and celebrate with him. I would never use him or take advantage of him. I would stand with him against anybody who gave him trouble about it.
I'm afraid he doesn't see that. I don't think he would come out to me because he would be afraid to hurt my feelings because of the whole "I turned him gay" stigma. I hope he knows that, even though our relationship is over, I still love him and I will always have his back. That's what love does.
Guys, if you have something to confess to your girls, do it. If she really loves you she'll support you.