Okay a little of this story. There's

Okay a little of this story. There's this guy. Who's REALLY weird. I was always half friendly to him and half paid him attention (half as in not much! But more than anyone else so it kind of accounts for something). And then he asked me to go out to the movies with a bunch of people. He askded shyly but I thought nothing of it and some of the people I was close with so I said okay. Next day he thinks we're dating. I was too embarrassed to tell my friends and felt too sorry for him to break up with him. It's now 2 weeks on, my friends don't know. He thinks we're dating and since I'm his first 'girlfriend' he doesn't expect me to kiss him or be overly affectionate although he does text me as though we were dating. I feel sorry for him but I hate him and I'm not 'cheating' on him. But my confession is that I wish I could be more straight forward with things and I'm too scared of hurting people and getting hurt myself so I'm just hanging round not knowing anything about love.

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  • Trust me, you will hurt him more the longer you let this go on. Or are you willing to sacrifice your own happiness in order to make someone else happy?

  • I agree with the second commentor...TELL HIM BEFORE IT GETS UGLY!!!

  • tell him before you hurt him.

  • Set him straight before you actually find a different boyfriend, and this other weirdo flips and kills you both.

  • If you're this way with someone you don't even want to be dating, how will you ever keep someone you DO want to be with? They will walk all over you and as a result have no respect for you. You need to grow some spine.

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