We want a crazy night out...

I have been married for 6 years we have a kid and we have a great marriage, but ever since we had our kid our s** life has been nonexistent. We talked things out and decided that we would come up with crazy sexy fantasies to try out once a week. We would come up with our own and switch off. The problem is I cant think of anything specific to try. And it makes me feel horrible because it was my idea. Could you give me some ideas?

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  • Not easy, especially if she's not into s** to begin with anymore. I went through it, too, with my ex-wife. We used to have, if not tons of s**, I'd say a good, consistent amount..Then, it all seemed to stop. We'd go months and only have s** a few times, and those times were mostly physical and going through the motions in a "let's get this over with" tone.

    Went to breakfast one weekend and I brought it up. Nicely, but did say, remember when we were in college, and had s** 5-6 times a day (we did)? And first got the house and did it in every room (including my basement bar)? I was trying to prompt the discussion, and she took the bait a little.

    I knew she'd never go for the usual stuff people try, like costumes or whatever, and I had to keep it easy. Suggested doing some hot photos, as we'd done years ago, and maybe some chocolate syrup or cool whip. Nothing crazy, to me anyway, and she went for it. Kind of worked, kind of didn't. But at least we got back to having s** once in a while as opposed to every 6-8 weeks.

  • Going from no s** to one wild fantasy a week may be too much. How about starting with one month?

  • maybe you should f*** your ex

  • Same room swapping is a lot of fun. You should give it a try.


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