Shy

I'm a guy. I'm also very shy. I can't stand being in a public place but, I have to. Just to make it through life I have to be in front of people but I feel so insecure around people. At home I have a lot of energy. I do many things. I play the piano and the guitar. I draw, and write stories as well. I don't know why I am so shy but I am. Ever since I was little I couldn't speak to girls. I get so nervous, and I shake. I've been trying to deal with this but it's so hard. I'm going to college right now. I'm the guy sitting in the corner. I'm 19 years old. You would think I would have been able to deal with shyness by now but a lot of things happened in my life that didn't exactly help my self esteem. I haven't had a girlfriend. I've never kissed anyone. I've never even held hands with a girl. I know it's pathetic, That's why I hate the way I am.

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  • No it's not pathetic! everybody got their own weaknesses, and also their own strengths! I bet you're a creative guy, you play musics and write stories. But I bet the shyness is killing you as well (with all the feelings of isolation, and that bad little feeling that comes whenever you just can't quite express yourself). Shyness can make you feel like you're imprisoned within yourself, and disable you from expressing your thoughts and feelings to others, especially to strangers. It can be especially challenging feelings to be dealt with in college where you are expected to be more expressive. Shyness sucks! Good news is, it doesn't have to this way forever, it's possible to get out of it slowly. A psychologist can help you with this! :) I wish you all the best! -- from a shy person who learns to overcome shyness, gradually.

  • Don't worry, some girls like guys like you . They prefer someone who can treat them better and respect them . Well, I kinda prefer a gentleman than a guy who just wants to have s** . Shy boy will do, they're always the best company . I guess so .

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