20 years with something missing

I'm 19. In two months I'll be 20 years old. I've yet to have my first kiss, let alone a date. I know that I shouldn't dwell on simply a number, but I'm terrified of turning 20 without ever having been in a relationship. I just want to to have someone to wake up to, to hold hands with, to enjoy doing nothing with. I know love is out there for me, I just need to find out where.

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  • I waited until I was 22 and I was a virgin,until I was 24.I'm happy I waited.
    I'm in a loving,committed and loyal relationship.We've been together,for seven and a half years.I have no regrets and I love knowing,it's only my partner,that's made love to me.

    I hope you find a loving person,to share your life with.Remember,there's no rush,take your time ??

  • It is time u were f***** sweetheart what r u waiting for

  • I don't think anyone that has had s** or been in a relationship would ever say that they wished it would have happened sooner. And most people that have been in that situation often regret the rashness of their decision. Take your time. And be confident.

  • I'm 18 and have never been kissed, had s**, or gone on a date. I haven't really ever had a crush on anybody either. I don't have low self-esteem, I have just seen enough to know that there is no point wasting my time, or emotions, on someone who isn't worth it. I know that in time the person who is right for me will come along, and it doesn't matter how long it takes. I have faith, and I know that everyone is worth more than what some people settle for. -NDS

  • I agree :)

  • I was 19 when i lost my virginity and had my first kiss and relationship. All i can say is whats the rush you have all the time in the world to find that special someone. If i could turn back time i would have waited til i had found the right person cos my first time wasnt all that. You sound ready for a relationship but you dont want to come across desperate. i always say romance is never dead. find out what is going on localy in your area for people around your age, volenteer for stuff, go to events/classes. Just promise me something that you will wait til the right person comes along dont waste your virginity as you will regret it later.

  • I'm 17 and never been in love. I never date anyone before and never have any bf/gf. FML . And yes, I too have s***** self esteem

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