i haven't had ** in 5 mths, and I'm

Don't have ** with your husband have ** with someone else. Im 19f n I would DIE if I didn't have ** for 5 months. Do it do it! Lol

Go out to the bar scene. This will likley pay off.

i would much rather sleep or eat than have ** anymore. it's true. and i'm only 35. sure i get the urge once in a while, but pleasuring yourself can be just as good. at least it takes the pressure off those feelings. and plus. like you said, it would only open a can of worms. just be sure it's a can you actually WANT to open.

Masturbation is very underrated. Safe, easy, quick or slow, cheap, etc., etc.

lol!

Yeah don't open up a can of worms like that. Just follow the advice of the first commenter and be careful not to let your desires turn you into a mini **

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Like, die in real life? Terminal?

If not, don't open that can. It'll introduce new headaches where you'll realize you liked aspects of your marriage, but the bad overwhelmed the good. It'll lead to both of you examining faults and who's blaming who. Its all bad karma.

Any other friends you can turn into friends with benefits? Or ask a girlfriend to set you up, or something like that. Also, masturbation is underrated. Surf the internet and maybe 'invest' in something that'll let your explore your own likes and dislikes (you might surprise yourself once you realize you don't have to please or be judged in your quest to satisfy yourself.)
Perhaps get a few -good- soft core erotica books and dream up anything you wish. Try webcams for a new thrill. Things like that.