Im n a bad relationship with a man that

Im n a bad relationship with a man that i can barely stand at times well most of the times. he lies has cheated doesnt pay bills and the list goes on, any way, i ended up cheating on him with a younger man i work with, no one on the job knows,when we were together he made me feel special, but at work he acts like he doesnt know me,it seemed like we only got together when he called, when i call he be like he'll call me back and never do, so i got frustrated and stop answering his calls its been a few months now but im really feining for him, he approaches me at work asks me to come by and or call him, i lead him on thinking i will but never have, i hear rumors that he has messed with other women on the job, so thats dramma and a turn off, but i reall want him as well i have a guy at home, what is a girl to do?

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  • All of u are so right with ur comments,( im the one who post this) its hard letting someone u been with for so long go, i cant stand him and i feel like im being used but i do care about him, not to mention im afraid to be alone sounds crazy huh...but as far as the guy from work, yeah as much as i crave for him i realize its best for me to just let him go completely and thats what i've been sticking too~ thanks everyone for ur comments it really is helping me

  • This guy at work is just a repeat of the guy at home. Firs things first; get better taste in men. Then, be alone for a while so you can figure out what you need and how to stand on your own two feet. Then, be with a guy who doesn't cheat on you and whom you don't cheat on.

  • I agree with the others who have commented. Lose the guy that you are with now, and try to be smart about this other guy at work.

  • Leave this bad relationship first and foremost. As for the guy at work just be careful with that situation. It could make your work environment uncomfortable. So just play it by ear. Chances are though if he messed with you he probably is messing with other women at work. So you have to ask your self if he's worth the drama to you. After all you are already in some drama in your current relationship. No need to pile on until that is over.

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  • Why stay in a bad relationship? As far as the guy at work goes maybe he is only interested in you when he wants something?

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