What would you do if your boyfriend confessed wearing diapers?

I'm a 29 year old male. Totally normal other then the fact that I love to wear and use diapers and be treated like a baby. I'm recently in a new relationship and I know she has no idea yet. I know she could go either way from my experience with most past relationships. Actually most woman have accepted me freely. But this time I really like the girl. I dot want to blow it but I know I have to be honest sooner then later. My question is what would you girls out there do if your boyfriend told you this about himself. Asumming you loved him and it wasn't just a fling. Would you perticapaite if it made him happy?

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  • I don't know man. I can see another man accepting and caring for you, unfortunately. Even today a lot of women don't understand the give and take process and expect to be babied themselves. As evidenced by this comments section.

    They don't "get it" about the self-sacrficing initiative mature masculinity requires. And for all the tires you've changed for them and doors you've held and roofs you've held over their heads... they owe you waaay f****** more than diaper changes.

    It's not an asinine thing to ask. It's due diligence if you ask me.

    To be perfectly and painfully honest men look out for one another as men look out for women. There may be an older male (I'm not one of em, I am younger than you) willing to oblige your desires from a natural instinct to nurture, men instinctively have to take care of selfish, leechy women like babies so I can't imagine why they would flinch at taking care of another productive member of society.

    But yeah. Women expect you to be built to protect and provide from an unnatural point, from your height, your paycheck, your g****** p****, and no emotions allowed whatsoever. Unless you find an anomaly.

    The trade off is far from fair but it never has been. If you honestly feel you have a "baby side" you may have to live a double life. Not cheat, but the head of one household and the baby of another. Just don't starve yourself of your true nature.

    So far, all of the women in the thread have made fun of you and two men stepped up to look after you, and one of them isn't even gay. That should say something. Unfortunately.

  • Thanks for being so understanding and supportive. Quick update I ended up marrying her and we are extremely happy. We are also in an open relationship which affords me the opportunity to explore other aspects of my sexuality.

  • No I would dump him in a New York minute. What a pervert.

  • If she really likes you then she will accept you. You shouldn't have to hide this from her. The sooner you tell her the better

  • With me its the other way around,my girlfriend likes wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants and being like a baby girl at times.she is 23!

  • My boyfriend is he same way. It took a while to adjust and a few things had to be arranged but my 25 yr old noyfriend Owen now lives full time as a baby and has for two years.

  • Hmmm my actual boyfriend has the same problem.... but it took him a year of him to be honest with me because he got caught by me with a p*** video in his phone of a girl doing pee wearing a diaper in the forest. I asked him many times that one day we were in the room doing things and he from the no where told me that he would love to see me wearing adiaper I was surprised of course because it was new but then he made it comfortable for me to accept it and I did. I asked him to bring of them to my room and his face turned red, I knew he would be feeling ashamed but I was serious. After couple days I got my period and guess what ? I wore a diaper and it turned him on that since that moment every time I have time to do it for him I do it because I love him. BTW we been 3 amazing years together. When you really love someone you accept all kind of stuff from them. I love him and trust me it was hard for me in the beginning but thinking about it. He being more open with me made me love him more. We are all different.
    Sorry my English might not be best

  • I'm a man. If I was going to be in a relationship, it would be with a man like you. So I can't speak for girls. I'm not a perve. But if you're a high-earning business owner with a home who gives to charity and likes to pee himself, I sense that you're an kind, open-minded and good value person and I would be all over you. Just sayin. I probably couldn't be bothered treating you like an infant but if you wanted to lay next to me in a nappy, I'd think... well... that's all good.

  • You are so kind as to say that. As it turns out, I'm now married to my wife and mommy and we are very happy. We are also open relationship so I can get all the extras that my wife can't provide such as bisexual experience. If you are in the ny area I would love to be friends.

  • My boyfriend likes diapers. It's very hard for me to understand but I'm trying. There is definitely hope for your relationship (I don't know if you've told her yet). If she loves you and is an open minded person she will try to understand

  • Seems like ur nice guy but u cant take what other girls woulddo as what your gf would do beceuse everyone is different... myself if I loved the guy I would be caring and understanding and non judgementsl but its not something I could get into and I may just want to be friends and find a more compatable s** partner but who knows maybe she could get into it everyone is differrnt

  • You are the reason they invented prostitutes. Don't tell your woman. Instead, watch the season 4 episode of "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" where she deals with a man with an infantalism fantasy.

  • That is an awful thing to say. Cheating is wrong. Even if the girl is not having s** with me that would still be cheating. I never cheat. Plus I have female friends that would be happy to diaper me but I'm not interested. I want it from the woman I love. No other.

  • Personally I would find it too freaking weird. Sorry. Would it make me run from you ? Very possibly.

  • A fair answer. Some people. Maybe the majority would after all

  • Ok so now maybe from someone a little nicer? Btw. I am not a loser. I own a business. Earn plenty of money. Drive a nice car. Own a home. Give to charity. And I am kind to others. So as far as my being a loser, that's a solid no. Anyway, anyone consider staying and showing understanding to a guy like me if it was your boyfriend.

  • After throwing up, I would never see the loser again!

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