I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This is all fine to me, however, many of my friends have had many boyfriends/girlfriends and many of them started having s** at a young age and I'm sitting here watching how they're so weak now without s** or affection and how they rely on men/women for happiness now. It's starting to scare me away from wanting to get involved with anyone ever and I'm fearing that sitting here watching their mistakes is going to keep me alone for the rest of my life.

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  • I am very impressed by your independent thinking. There is a reason for waiting to have s**. DON'T WORRY--you will have more than ample time and opportunity to have s** when you're a little older. But for now, it is good that you are smart enough to notice some of the problems people get into when getting involved too early. Go ahead and date. Kiss and whatever. But draw the line wherever you feel comfortable. And good for you!!!

  • Do it when you are ready but do it when it is right. There will always be ups and downs but when you meet the right person you will know.

  • it almost always takes heartbreak and mistakes to find true happiness with love. you can't sit back and watch your friends, you have to do it too, just do it with more caution than them.

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