I want to Know

I want to know what S** is really like, I want to know the hard truth about the first time. I'm a girl thinking about having it for the first time, but I'm scared. I want to know what its like, how much it hurts and the emotions it brings.

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  • Try it and you'll find out

  • It doesn't hurt for all girls. It depends on how their bodies are made and also what kind of stuff has happened to them in life. For example, using tampons cuts down on the chance of it hurting because you're already slightly stretched. As for emotions, it's always a bigger deal to the girl than the guy, and it can never meet your expectations. It's not like in romance novels or movies where you and your lover see fireworks, so don't do it unless you're ready to be mature about it.

  • My first time I was 15 and it hurt so badly that I blacked out. I only remember about half of it. It only hurt the first 2 times though. As far as emotions go...that's the hardest part. I thought I was going to marry the guy I lost my virginity to. I felt so connected to him because of what we had done and I was head over heels in LOVE with him. Problem was, he didn't feel the same way and he dumped me a few months later. I was so distraught I wanted to kill myself. It took me YEARS to get over him. If I could go back and do it all again, I'd save myself for marriage and save myself a LOT of heartache.

  • Well my first time, I was 12.

    I thought I was completely ready, and I look bacc now, 3 years later &&I realise that I wasn't. Most people don't understand the emotion behind it, but after a while the emotion goes away, and it really is a sad thing.

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