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Please help, I ** up
I met a ** facebook (Cassie) and we became very close. She told me all her secrets and I told her all of mine. Another one of my close friends (Millie), told me a really big secret and I told Cassie the secret. She promised she wouldn't tell anyone. The next day her friend (Ann) came over and went through Cassie's inboxes. She then told EVERYONE everything I had said about them. Now, I can't even have a facebook account because I get so many threats and cyber bullying. i can't stop thinking about it, everyday I cry and threw up, scream and result to self harm. Everyone on facebook is posting statuses about me, pubicly using my name and saying how much of a backstabbing ** I am. I know, I ** up. I shouldn't of talked about people behind their backs and I've learned my lesson. Still, what's done has been done, and I'm a nervous wreck and I even have to move schools now because otherwise the bullying will continue. I feel so guilty and lonely, I lost one of my best friends, Millie. i don't know what to do, but if you're here to tell me that I'm a backstabbing ** or insult me, it will just make things worse. I want advice. I've deactivated my facebook. Any suggestions on how to fix things or how to live my live. I am so lonely and confused, any suggestions will help . Thanks.
Nobody deserves to be bullied or made to feel bad like this, and there are people out there to help - parents or teachers might be able to help too. Talk to someone. You can report cyber-bullying to facebook as well or google for advice and help about it - there's loads of great sites out there.
The other advice people have posted here is great too - apologies and give people time to forgive.
If you're being cyber bullied talk to someone - googling cyber bullying help will help you find people who can help. Childline (childline.org.uk) offers online access to counsellors and advice which is private and free.
the way to fix it is to apologize and humble yourself before your friends. show them you are sincere and they will forgive you-probably won't forget though.
Well all I can say is that in the short term high school may seem like a lot but once you leave your school and town you'll forget about all the misery. Another thing is, when your outcasted you grow, so even if your in a lot of pain now, you'll be growing, and in life thats all that really matters.