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HELP!!! How to stop being closed-minded?
I'm very closed-minded about certain things.
It's because of jealousy.
I'm ugly, so sometimes I hate seeing happy pretty people, I cannot help it. Please don't hate me, I don't really hate them, I mainly just feel extremely envious. Because people love them, and they hate me, even if I'm nice. And I am nice to people, trust me.
How to stop feeling like this?
Also, I'm virgin and people love promiscuity, but I hate it. Is it okay if I hate promiscuity? I just find it gross. I want to be with only one person my whole life.
Do you hate me, do you think I deserve it when people hate me because I'm not pretty?
I want to stop feeling insecure, and to stop thinking I'm better than people I call superficial, just to comfort myself and try to feel better. It's bad to do that, and I'm trying to stop. I want to go back to loving people more, even if they don't love me. Please give me some advice. And if you hate me too, please tell me why.
Oh, and here's a banana for your monkey.
First, do NOT compare yourself to others. That's what making you insecure. Do NOT even compare yourself to the people you think inferior than you just to make yourself feel better,at the end of the day it will never help. Instead, Focus on yourself I'm not saying that you should be selfish, but you should love yourself first, how can people love you when you don't even love yourself.
Second, in my own opinion.. virginity is scared. It's a good choice to wait and only give it to your future spouse. (I'm a Christian and I grew up believing in such things)
Lastly, I don't think you are ugly. You are beautiful in your own way. Physical appearance is nothing compared to the real beauty of a person inside.
ur probilly butifull