My best friend...

My best friend is coming to see me...or is she? I've been going through some health problems and she decided she wanted to come and see me. Recently I "introduced" her to my brother and now all she does is talk about him. I should probably mention she's married and has children. They started out as friends but now there's more and I don't feel like she's coming out to see me at all I'm just the excuse for her to give her unsuspecting husband.

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  • I think if she only wanted to see your brother, she wouldn't include you in the mix, especially if what she has in mind is romantic in nature. She may want to explore certain possibilities with him (sexual, marital, etc.), but there's really nothing you can do about that. If you think what she's doing is clearly wrong or improperly motivated (your message isn't clear about where she is on that), then talk to your brother about the situation and explain to him what you think she might be after. Assuming he's of legal age, it's up to him to deal with her anyway, and to either discourage her or encourage her. However, if she says things to you about your brother or her husband that make you think she has jumped or is about to jump over a cliff without knowing what's under her, you can certainly tell her what you think about what lies beneath.

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