Bi and married

I am a 30 yr old guy, have been married for a few years and I am bisexual. Before getting married had some experiences with guys, I thought it was just curiosity, but it did not go away. I'll flirt with guys and m********* thinking about men sometimes. I cannot tell my wife, she would freak out.

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  • You could start the process by telling her you had s** with a guy several years before you met her. Don't say it was a one-time thing: just don't tell her what it was. Tell her this to see how she reacts, and that will let you know whether she considers it no biggie, or considers it a major problem.

    Another approach would be to use the "I have a friend" approach, and describe your sexuality -- married, but wanting both men and women -- as being that of "a friend of mine". This will tell you how she might react to your actual situation.

    Either way, sweetheart, don't kid yourself: once you've gotten d*** in you, the hunger NEVER goes away. You're going to want d*** forever. And you'll go out hunting for d***. And you'll get it.

  • You should tell your wife. Being honest is key to having a successful and long lasting relationship.

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