Weird older dude fantasy! :/

I work in an office, I'm becoming strangely attracted to our IT/Sys Admin guy. We talk on and off, and he invited a bunch of us over to his home where we all helped make the dinner (which was a ton of fun). I'm pretty sure he's like 55, but I guess he's just so knowledgeable and charismatic that I'm developing a weird little crush on him. I'm 24. The other day, I actually found myself getting jealous because some guy was talking to him about a problem, and I "needed" to ask him a technical programming question. I have a boyfriend and we are doing awesome, so I'm not really sure where this is coming from. And to be honest, it's a bit unsettling.

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  • Don't pay attention to him stick with your boyfriend
    :)

  • its just an infatuation... move on don't pay any attention to it... his knowledge is what is causing the illusion etc... if you find it disturbing and that it might cause problems in your relationship which you dont want to risk... avoid situations that will cause the attraction to escalate... keep it professional..

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