my confession is that for my whole

my confession is that for my whole pregnancy and the first 5 months of my son's life, I didn't know who his father was. It makes me feel like a total s***, but I'm really a good girl at heart (well, i used to be, but not so much anymore)

But I feel really bad, because I didn't tell both of the men that my son might not be theirs. I only told one (the one that I was pretty sure was the dad) and the other guy thought the baby was his through the whole pregnancy. I feel bad, because part of the reason his dad has never seen him (the one i did tell,) is because of me. And I don't want my son to hate me forever. And I hope his dad can forgive me for (partly) causing him to miss a big part of his first year. He wasn't exactally the best guy in the world, but I still feel partly responsible for how much he has missed out on. it really sucks. And I hope he never tells our son.


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  • I've told everyone now. The secret is out. I just hope my son's father doesn't try to use it against me just because I was stupid. I feel really bad for what I did.

  • Ignore the first comment. Everyone makes mistakes, but you have to try to rectify them before they turn into bigger ones. So you know the guy you told is the father? Have you told the other guy that he isn't? The best thing to do is come clean, no matter what they may think - it's better to get it out in the open now then wait until your son is old enough to know what's going on and become emotionally damaged. Believe me, secrets like that have their way of getting out.

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