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My gf wants to get serious have some real ** but we aren't old enough to support kids. I dont really want to have ** yet but she really expects me to have ** with her. Although she is attractive smart funny etc im not really ready. We really have simmaler caulities.What should i do : have ** now,wait some time have ** later,dont have ** or break up
Condom! Do not have a baby. But if you don't want to do it, that's ok. Can you buy her a ** toy? You both could use it together?
The common adult answer is If your not ready for it then your not ready. If pregnancy is a concern then use a condom or birthcontrol preferably both. The less socially accepted answer is that ** is part of a relationship and i mean "a part". You said "real **" so im assuming that you both have done everything but **, she sounds like she trusts
you and wants more from you and have no idea how lucky you are. I might have picked it up wrong when you say "have some ready **" by thinking she already give you blow jobs as if you enjoy that then you should have no problems enjoying "real **" and if pregnancy really worries you then learn how to make her ** and use rest of her body for **. Silicone based lube the more the better and ** her **. ** what social stigma thinks.
No matter what, always use a condom. ALWAYS. Even if she says she's on the pill or clean.
You have already answered your own question. You're not ready, and that's okay. Tell her the truth, that you are not ready and would prefer to wait. You can still be serious and committed to one another without having **. If she doesn't want to wait that's her choice. But don't ever feel pressure to do anything that you are not ready to do. Maybe you'll be ready when you're older, or when you'll get married..it's your choice. When the time is right, you'll know.