Here it goes.

If you pursue him, and let him know that he's the only one and you'll do anything for him, be ready for abuse. Lot's of women chase what they can't have and end enduring abuse of all kinds because the man takes advantage of your willingness to be whatever he wants you to be.

It's his loss. And you are good enough. In fact, you're too good for him. Not everyone is meant to be together, and that's okay. The sooner you can cut all ties and move on, the sooner you'll find someone.

Sucks. Hope it works out for you in one way or another.