I hate my girlfriend's son

I hate my girlfriend's son. When I first met him I tried hard to like him. But after 2 years he remains as dislikable as ever, if not worse. I think he knows I don't like him. Which to be honest doesn't bother me. Why? Because he deserves not to be liked. Among his worst attributes are his cockiness, arrogance, and sharp tongue. He is not an average kid. He is gifted and he is going to a top school in the state for gifted students.

This boy has NO reason to act like an a******, except for the fact that being an a****** may be ingrained in his DNA. He has a Wii, and XBox, a laptop, an iPhone, a giant flat screen TV, video games and movies galore, Netflix. His mother gives him absolute freedom and lets him ride in the front seat of her car even though he is short for his age. We take him to Disney World every month. All the Parks. Magic Kingdom, Disney Studios, Epcot, everything. He is not spoiled, but he gets awesome things that most kids don't have.

Honestly, I don't know why he chooses to act this way. Even his mother knows that he is an a******; considering he doesn't have it bad at all.

The kid is cocky, rude, arrogant, a know-it-all, has a sharp answer for everything, makes himself look like a conceited a******, never stops bragging about himself, does not like to share anything, does not answer when spoken to, is aloof, has an arrogant demeanor and carries himself like if he is God's gift to humanity and his s*** doesn't stink; he thinks he is perfect and doesn't make any mistakes, he treats others as if they are not in the room, and he just always has this "bored" look on his face like if everyone if retarded and everyone "bores" him.

I consider myself a sensible person. I have met arrogant people and I can totally see that this squirt of s**** is a first class a****** in the making.

I know that I am the adult and I have to show him good examples. I do. I try. I am as patient as possible when he is acting like himself which is always. My girlfriend acknowledges that I am right; that her son is an a******. She says it herself and sets him straight and reams his ass, which is often. But this doesn't phase him. He shuts his arrogant, cocky mouth only to later get on people's nerves again.

The boy's "father" if you can call him that without laughing out loud, picks his son up 4 days a month. The rest of the time he is with us or he hangs out at his aunt's house who lives very nearby. The "real father" likes to spend more time drinking with his girlfriend than spend time with his son.

I would think that maybe if his "father" gave a s***, it would improve his son's behavior, but I doubt it. I have seen other kids go through way worse and turn out just fine, but I think considering all the good things this boy has in his life (easy access to his whole family, all the nice electronics and Disney trips, popularity at school, good school, etc.) would curb his a****** tendencies but it doesn't and it may well be programmed into his DNA.

Is "hate" a strong word? Probably. Intense aversion, content, and dislike? Yes. Do I like it when he's not around? Absolutely.

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  • Same problem...girlfriends son is an a######e too....acts like a slob..absolutely lazy as h***..tells his mother and me to f off..calls her nasty names and his useless dad thinks he's a normal kid....don't get it

  • Wait... you think he's NOT spoiled?!

  • Very good advice, dont date single mothers, DRAMA, my girlfriend moved in with me and her 20 year old is causing all kinds of drama. Her son does not live with us. Mom buys him a car and he crashes it. Mom takes the car and he comes to my house causing drama and called me out to fight. Come out and start fighting, mom pleads not to hurt him. My brother trys to keep the peace and gets sucker punched by him. Mom meanwhile is crying and lets his son run a muck. "Stay away no matter how hot the mother is" date and have fun but don't settle.

  • Man i feel your pain. Gfs kid is 8 and he drives me his voice is so damned whiney. Cries and sooks about every little problem. Screaming matches when we try and discipline him. His mom gives in almost every shot. Just the sound of his voice whips me into a fury. As its usually followed by spme bullshit. Have my own daughter on weekenda and she loses out on activities because f his s***** behaviour. I have my friends constantly asking why i dont take the kids over there places. And ita because of this little c**** behaviour. Had already been a massive embarrassment in any functions hes been included in. We cant even go for a walk without it turning into a s*** show. Dunno how much longer i can deal with it.

  • Show him who's boss. Little f***** needs to be put in his place. It is that simple. I'm not saying to beat the kid or mentally abuse him. Simply sit him down and be stern with him. Look him in the eyes like a man and make him understand. If not then tell his mother that its not worth your time and mentality to deal with a little f*******!

  • Man
    Just one thing... Never ever date or try to get involved at anyway to a woman who has kids. It's a waste of time and energy. Find yourself a child free woman... it is hard but it worth it.

  • I SECOND THIS I AM A GUY IN THIS SITUATION WHO HAS A NEW KID WITH A SINGLE MUM WHO HAS A TEENAGER. OMG SOUNDS STUPID DOESNT IT?! DONT DO IT!!!
    THIS WAS NOT PLANNED AND I LOVE MY KID NOW BUT THIS SITUATION IS HORRIBLE NOW I JUST HAD TO BE MORE CAREFUL NOW IM F*****.
    I PROBABLY HAVE TO LEAVE HER IN THE LONG RUN OR JUST STAY 3 NIGHTS A WEEK WHEN HER OTHER KID ISNT THERE.. TIME WILL TELL DONT F****** DO IT!!!!! save yourself for better it will come be patient boys. keep her on the side till you find yourself a child free mother best advice ever unless u already have kids.

  • Yes I have a beautiful girlfriend an I really cannot stick her son even the way he moves annoyes me .I will eventually have to leave her I cannot stick him.

  • Funny how so many guys feel the same way in this situation. I think it says something about our deepest instincts of family and bloodline. It's always the exact opposite when the woman has a little girl. It's like then we actually want to see the girl spared from the first d*** head who ruined her mothers life in the first place. I'm in the same situation. He's 6. Words cannot describe my dislike for this kid. Only I f***** up and had twin daughters with her. I absolutely love my girls and they're not going anywhere. I can't stand even seeing this annoying little terd put his hands on them. I'm going more out of my mind every day and at this point I'm completely honest with her about how much I hate him. All week long I live for the weekend when he goes to his dad's who is , you guessed it, a total piece of s*** loser. The fights just get worse and I'm starting to realize by the time I do get rid of this little pansie I'll already hate His mother for the years of misery and bullshit. Oh well. She knows where the door is.

  • Yes I'm in the same boat I cannot wait for the secconed weekend to come around so this little fat head s*** gets taken by his daddy who also yes is a complete waste of air. this kid is alittle panis aswell even the way he runs and moves annoyes me the shape of hi fat head. if I'm single again I will stay away from single mothers complete wste of time

  • U know this is the only thing thats made me feel better all day it 1235pm here in UK i been at work since 9:30am.
    mine is same situation but thankfully we just had 1 girl not twins and her boy is almost 15 now so maybe not long to go.
    should i stay or should i go??!!!! he will hang about for years possibly he is a loser kid.

  • The kids an a.. . He needs discipline and to learn respect. Get out. There is a better way to direct your kindness than rewarding this little rat with your time and money. The mother should know better than raising him like that

  • Kids a piece of s*** and so is the mom

  • Exactly.
    its just a shame with the moms love us and do anything for us.
    so shes my piece of s***!!

  • You're an impostor in this boys home and you're acting as though he's the one being out of line. Why exactly should be like you? What is so g******* good about you that he should make special exceptions for the random guy who's turned up just to bang his mother?

    Who cares what he has? By the sound of it he's got a Father who doesn't care, a mother who's thinking about herself and some random guy living in his house who wants to see the back of him.

    Clearly, this boy can see right through you, and you don't like it, and you know it, else you'd not be on here spouting off.

  • Wow, you're an absolute c***!

  • No if he is living at that man house the boy is child and needs to stay in child's place

  • This dumb bi**h I bet she has a lil **g boy son that is stool annoying and dislikable that she's all alone...hey gun lol how many guys left you for this reason? Oh and next time don't sound so bitter and you won't get rashes on like this....and btw why would a single lonely mom with a loser son come on a page that is about guys venting about stupid punk kidsprob like yours lol. Go and troll somewhere else....oh and good luck finding a guy that will out up with this man is putting up with...then again you'll prob end up with a guy that uses and beats you and the kitsyear's later because you will be so desperate YOULL DO IT AND STAY...when if you would've looked at both sides instead of thinking your son's shut don't stink...#openyoureyes

  • And you're a f"in moron and likely a woman that is scorned simply bc someone did it to you

  • Your response is just f****** stupid

  • This is bullshit. Kids get possessive of their mothers. The tool that wrote this response has an edopis/Electra complex about their parent to this day. Some kids are just little s****. Plain and simple

  • He is a child. Like him or not he should have respect. Kids get away with everything now a days. Is his mom just supposed to stay alone forever so no one "imposes" on the kid!? F that... When I was out of line my dad whooped me. And it made me a better person. Too bad people are sensitive weaklings today..

  • Seriously? This is your response? You've either never dealt with a kid who is a brat or haven't dealt with kids at all. Such a shortsighted and uninformed response to assert "he is a child"

    He's a POS, irrespective of his age; grow up and get a clue

  • You are clueless . I' m in the same scenario .believe it or not little spoiled basement babies can be d**** regardless of family dynamic.he will grow up to be a tumor on his mama.im in the same situation paying all the bills for a self entitle d bratty little f***.

  • Jesus christ - are you born retarded? Or you just like acting stupid? Every child reacts in a different way - Blame the parents not the child - he never asked to be born in the first place... Im honestly not surprised - his father does not care about him & neither does his mother by the looks of things - then suddenly some other random guy shows up every now and then to bang his mother and expects to be respected? Obivously the child is still emotionally connected with his Mother & ex-Father and cannot stand the fact that some 20/30/40 year old douche shows up every now and then...

    But hey! He is a kid right? Who gives a single solitary **** about what he actually wants right? Its way more fun to bang his mother in her own bed room right?

    You are a grown man - and if you can't accept the fact than he will not accept you in his life - you either suck it up and ignore him - or GET THE **** OUT of the relationship - cause not only are you ruining it for yourself but for him also.

  • Omg stud you sound so stupid . Go to a forum about stupid idiots that troll pages

  • Stfu

  • So easy for others to say s*** like,"you knew she had kids". Yes you knew, but did you know they are a*******? No. Signing up for a woman with kids is 1 thing. Signing up for a woman with a****** brats is another! I am in a situation like this. She has 2 kids and i have 2 kids, but f*** i wish i could be set free from her a*******!

  • I could have written this word for word!
    I'm in the exact situation, but after 4 1/2 years of praying for him to change, I've realised that he never will!
    He is a first class w****r and will always be.
    Do I quit, or hope he f***s off soon?

  • Seems like he needs to see a shrink about some deep emotional s***. He might seem like a d***, but everyone has an inner monologue. He does what he does for a reason. Be it attention. Because he feel helpless in his life, or because he as a mental disability. The only way to really get to the cause is to help him feel like its okay to see a shrink. If his attitude hasn't already brought him depression with the way he is treated in school, then it soon will. Most of the bullies have a spiraling affect and know what is coming to them. They just don't care enough to seek help on their own. You just have to work off of his strengths, and build from there. Children are always hard, you just need to figure out a way to deal with individual situations.

    Then again, it may be too much to ask for you to try and intervene and give this much effort into helping someone have a happy life. To that I would say that you are not ready to be a parent. As most people aren't. Even though just the persistence and commitment is all it needs.

    A good example is how babies can sometimes repeat words that you feel you rarely ever say. They listen to everything. They hear everything--they can sense emotion. They feel of it. That in turn, feeds who they are as a person. SO even after 10 years of persistence and he seems the same.. He definitely is not. That is why setting up a good example is important.

    I would like you to try changing who you are in 3 years. Its even harder for him, because kids-even though they think they know--They have NO idea who they are. They are trying to figure it out. Therefore they will experiment and do things stupid.

  • f*** the little w***** kid off and your giflfriend before it drives you totally mad. you might love her but there is plenty of fish in the sea without the baggage of a w*****! you will get over her its human nature to. then you are free as a bird! i know as im in the same position as you and tried everything and nothing works!!!!! i even resorted in making it so open that i hate my girlfriends son that i would say it in front of him. i think i hoped deep down that he would f*** off and live with his dad (waste of oxygen p*** head) or grandparent as i made him feel uncomfortable in my presents he would reather live somewhere else. nothing worked so today i packed my girlfriends clothes and her wankers sons so when they come home from school they both will be given there marching orders. cant take this anymore my life is s*** because of someone else's kid there mistake!!! YOU ONLY LIFE ONCE AND BELIVE ME ITS OVER BEFORE IT BEGINS

  • I don't blame you: I don't like your girlfriend's son either. Or her. Or you.

  • Seriously, take all the kids away from straight people.

    Kind of a joke, but kind of serious. If you don't like the privilege of raising your own children (because the state can just come up with a bullshit reason to take them away like they do to queers who birth their own kids) then simply abandon them. Or kill them all and then yourself.

    You knew she had a kid. If you don't like the fact that she has a kid, you know you can stop putting your d*** in her, right?

  • And leave it to the f*** to solve the problem. Another fine solution from someone that screws his same s** and can't have kids but relies on others to make them for him. Grow up and f*** off

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