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I hate my girlfriend's son
I hate my girlfriend's son. When I first met him I tried hard to like him. But after 2 years he remains as dislikable as ever, if not worse. I think he knows I don't like him. Which to be honest doesn't bother me. Why? Because he deserves not to be liked. Among his worst attributes are his cockiness, arrogance, and sharp tongue. He is not an average kid. He is gifted and he is going to a top school in the state for gifted students.
This boy has NO reason to act like an **, except for the fact that being an ** may be ingrained in his DNA. He has a Wii, and XBox, a laptop, an iPhone, a giant flat screen TV, video games and movies galore, Netflix. His mother gives him absolute freedom and lets him ride in the front seat of her car even though he is short for his age. We take him to Disney World every month. All the Parks. Magic Kingdom, Disney Studios, Epcot, everything. He is not spoiled, but he gets awesome things that most kids don't have.
Honestly, I don't know why he chooses to act this way. Even his mother knows that he is an **; considering he doesn't have it bad at all.
The kid is cocky, rude, arrogant, a know-it-all, has a sharp answer for everything, makes himself look like a conceited **, never stops bragging about himself, does not like to share anything, does not answer when spoken to, is aloof, has an arrogant demeanor and carries himself like if he is God's gift to humanity and his ** doesn't stink; he thinks he is perfect and doesn't make any mistakes, he treats others as if they are not in the room, and he just always has this "bored" look on his face like if everyone if retarded and everyone "bores" him.
I consider myself a sensible person. I have met arrogant people and I can totally see that this squirt of ** is a first class ** in the making.
I know that I am the adult and I have to show him good examples. I do. I try. I am as patient as possible when he is acting like himself which is always. My girlfriend acknowledges that I am right; that her son is an **. She says it herself and sets him straight and reams his **, which is often. But this doesn't phase him. He shuts his arrogant, cocky mouth only to later get on people's nerves again.
The boy's "father" if you can call him that without laughing out loud, picks his son up 4 days a month. The rest of the time he is with us or he hangs out at his aunt's house who lives very nearby. The "real father" likes to spend more time drinking with his girlfriend than spend time with his son.
I would think that maybe if his "father" gave a **, it would improve his son's behavior, but I doubt it. I have seen other kids go through way worse and turn out just fine, but I think considering all the good things this boy has in his life (easy access to his whole family, all the nice electronics and Disney trips, popularity at school, good school, etc.) would curb his ** tendencies but it doesn't and it may well be programmed into his DNA.
Is "hate" a strong word? Probably. Intense aversion, content, and dislike? Yes. Do I like it when he's not around? Absolutely.
Join the club my gf's son is a fat lazy sneaky ** and every time i pop him for being a ** he cries and goes to his useless fat rat daddy' house bc he knows he can do whatever over there no consequence. Goes out to partis punished, comes back home sick every time passes it to me. Literally got in a fight today w my gf said im leaving her bc too much effort is putting into this fat loser and she got hella upset w me and told me i wasnt leaving. i said bish watch me, aint beat to put the next 5-6 years on show till this little ninja turns 18. I'd love to kick him tf out out now at 14, why cant it be like the old days if your child was ** they booted ya out, nowadays they celebrate these lazy retarded kids failure w awards and goodjobs. smh.
I Feel your Pain...I Hate My Gf,s Son....19 years Old Biggest cry ** ever....Always Getting everyone into Trouble.....Biggest Ratt....Whines about EVERYTHING...you wonder why ge has ZERO friends he snitches everyone out....š š š....He can't do NOTHING RIGHT...Put pants on backwards..Shoes on wrong feet ..I swear & pray thus retarded kid HAS NOTHING KIDS....To Be Babied On a 24-7 basis....Im honestly leaving my GF cause I hate the kid so much..We can't go anywhere cause all he does it Whine....Throws Fits when never get his way....24/7 ...On a Fking tablet...or cellphone...or ps4.....Wonder why this kid is dumb as ** for ....š¤£š¤£š She has a 8 year old Daughter who is Amanzing...Great personality...funny...caring..helpfull
I feel you man. My girlfriends 7 yr old son is one of the most misbehaved kids Iāve ever met. We canāt go anywhere or have a single day without him ruining the day for everyone. All she does is yell at him for hours and it does not good. He is whiny and throws temper tantrums like it is his job. She then tryās to have rationale adult caliber conversations with him like he can comprehend the topic. Why donāt parents spank their ** kids anymore?? The idea is that they know youāre willing to spank them and therefore you wonāt have to do it that often. Something require immediate decisive consequences. Obviously yelling at him, taking away toys and having a āadultā conversation with him does not work. Sending him to his room takes at least 2hrs and then he comes right back out and says rude ** things to her. When did kids start running the house?? Why is everyone so afraid of ** off their kids?? Nowadays parents rarer BBFs with their kids instead of being a parent. You a PARENT. The person who disciplines you when you are not being a decent human being, the one who teaches you boundaries and respect for others. Parent and child dynamic is not a diplomacy. YOU are in charge. YOU are responsible with ensuring your child does not grow up to be a entitled, spoiled, self-centered piece of **. I havenāt even scratched the surface of how terrible this kids behavior is 100% of the time. Itās ** to say... but as much as I love her, this is not a sustainable environment or relationship with such a poisonous child.
Amen!
Brother man I am in the same situation. Maybe not completely identical, but very similar. My girlfriends kid is a whiny ** little brat. His voice makes me just want to throat punch him. Iām giving it everything I can to change how much I hate this kid, but he is a little a-hole. Honestly, she canāt stand him half the time. Heās so disrespectful and does not listen to her. I just want to step in sometimes and swat his ** and send him crying to his room. This is why we have a country full of weak ** entitled crappy kids... because we tried so hard to be our kids friends and not parents. After this kid goes to his Dads and comes back heās even worse. I am a very patient and understanding person, but sometimes a ** kid is a ** kid. As I type this, I can hear his disobedient high-pitched whiny ** voice in my head and I want to smack his face. It doesnāt matter how nice you try to be, or what approaches you try that are recommended by experts, he acts as if he doesnāt hear you. Sometimes you need to throw out all psychology BS and give a good old fashion spanking. It would probably do him some good to toughen up and actually be held accountable. Somethings the kids of today lack.
Bro I feel you . Iām dating a girl she is absolutely awesome !!!! Her son is so ** annoying. Heās sooo whiny and I try I honestly do . Heās just a little ** !!!! Heās horrible at school fights other children , kicks over tables , argues with the teacher , then at home he plays this sweet innocent role on top of being annoying Iāve tried everything Iāve taken the little ** out brought him places itās and itās never enough . He cries and whines and say I want to spend Time with my mom I canāt stand him . He just stares at me and doesnāt talk and he breathes loud and heavy so itās just gross and he eats like a little pig I canāt ** take it I Have to end the relationship I hate the kid
Choke him. Seriously. This sounds ** up but it's true. Just choke him until right before he dies and then bring him back. Pat him on his back and give him a smile like "you're gonna play ball now, right?"
And do it once every 6 months, out of nowhere just to keep him inline.
It will only work until he is 14, of which he may become even more psychotic or be tamed.
I was dating a single mom a few years ago. Her kid was like 5, 5 and still climbing in bed with his mom if he woke up for any reason in the middle of the night. Plus, the kid was a holy terror of a brat! If he didn't get his way, the little ** would start trying to punch adults. So, I got payback.
1)I cheated on the mom from day one. She raised a spoiled brat, she deserved it.
2)Every. **. Time. I ** the kid's mom I made sure she squirted. Sure, you can change the sheets, but that little ** learned pretty quick that if he climbed in bed with his mom the ** was going to find a wet spot on the bed.
3)About six months after I dumped his mom the kid tried saying hi in public. He was so geared up, so excited, and I ** him and his mom off by sidestepping the kid and just walking off. ** that **.
The mother is so fixated on settling scores with the father, and on ways to try and get the child support increased, that she's willing to let her son's development go down hill so as to prove some kind of negligence charge she's trying to raise in the courts about the father's involvement. For a woman that talks about "child support drying up" when the kid turns 18, makes me really question the longevity of this relationship.
The son started as unruly and undisciplined when I first met him. Now he takes pleasure in other's suffering (not mine), is violent on the playground with other children, is learning how to progress with getting what he wants via social manipulations, can fake cry, and is learning to lie even more convincingly.
The relationship will end at some point, however... it seems that the long distance is only keeping it alive at the moment. Unreal!
I'm in the same situation, but a little different. Long distance relationships are almost always impossible.. However, my girl's 8 year old son makes it possible. It is such a pleasure to be away from that anxiety of being there with her. I love it absolutely when the son is not around, but I know that this relationship will die because I cannot stand him, and his behaviour. It just keeps getting worse.
This situation is this - the mother and father are split. The child spends 40-45% of his time at his strict father's place, where his behaviour is under wraps. When at the mother's place, the kid has no rules, or consistent expectations, and can fly off the handle like a bat out of **. The kid is doing extremely poorly in school, and still cannot read yet. It's really sad to see all this and yet not have any say in the matter.
I have been around this kid on and off for two years now. I have seen the evolution grow from unruly to just off the walls messed up, and still the behaviour is not addressed. This kid will end up in jail at some point if he doesn't get help.
The kid is loud and abnoxeous, and is becoming a bit of sociopath. No empathy at all. The kid needs constant attention, and will go to great lengths to get it, even if it means at another's expense. I think this relates to not getting any attention at his father's, and doing so poor at school academically. The kid can produce fake tears at will, lies constantly (but also in a way by which he can easily sell off as real to adults), and fakes injuries to get out of school.
This is My advice to all the men here::: listen up !!ā- seriously read this -
Every time you see their faces, every time you feel the need to want to destroy the kids existence, when you are holding in the urges to be physically violent , the sheer frustration you feel supporting and WASTING your time, energy, etc, for some piece of garbage that will never give back half of what you are putting in and will end up despising you no matter how good or bad you are ...;
GRAB ALL THAT ENERGY, harness every single fiber of sentiment and
Completely and utterly šš»šF-Uc-K the living š© out of the mother , , I mean wale away at her , get creative , tie her up , do nasty ** wild stuff , buy her a ** , make a mold of
Your piece ,strap it on and give her a DP sheāll never forget . I mean really give it to her the best you can . I MEAN REALLY . This is your revenge .
Youāll feel A LOT better and she wonāt know the difference , youāll get in her head sexually , the females will always pick her happiness over some ** for brains kid.
And then like leave things around , pictures, memos, plans on how your going to beat the ** up. Yea . Ruin the bastards life. And youāll be a great partner . Be more annoying .
Hahah trust me man , youāll have a blast and if it doesnāt work out , you beasted her and you can always say , āif you act up ima just gonna fck your mom ā
Worked for me .
Well man, you should learn to love him. If you are telling all your friends that you hate him then you are the big a**hole here. He's just being who he is and if you can't love him for that then you should probably leave the family. After all your not his daddy.
Thatās **
You sound like a f**king ***t.
** his daddy! His ** his mom. Thatās ** advice
Bash his face in
You evil
What a ** that kid is. You should start secretly hurting him.
Bro your the c***. Telling someone to secretly hurt a kid is f**ked Up! You should live in an insane asylum.
Lmao, who wants to play a game of burny burny cut cut?
Your ** retarded if you think the kid isn't spoiled. All the ** he has,and ** like going " Every month to Disney" and what not, are huge contributions to his ** demeanor. He will have 0 survival skills when he hits 18.
If a guy has no kids do not date, engage , or marry a woman with kids. Absolutely under any circumstances do this. Too much grief and so little reward! You will regret your decision. Do not try to imagine how wonderful it could end up being. Only works out in movies and /or sitcoms. Find a TRUE free woman with no children and continue that way OR start your own.