I really want to confront my life long friend
We are both now in our 40's. I've been friends with him since I was 5. We grew up on the same block. He brought the house where he grew up and my parents still see him.
We went on different paths in life but I thought that bond was always there. I was in his wedding party, he was in mine. Both his parents died before he was out of HS and my parents treated him like another son.
I recognize our lives are different, but it really bothered me and still bothers me that not once during my year long treatment for cancer did he ever call me. I spent two weeks in the hospital after surgery and no one call or visit.
I want to send him an email and ask what did I ever do to him, but what's the point.
While I'm bothered that he never showed any concern, I'm more bothered that he doesn't even say hello or wave to my parent's anymore.