Me and one of my good guy friends that I was pretty close with decided to use each other for s**. Booty call. before all that if one of us couldnt sleep we'd talk on the phone or chat on the computer for hours, always were there for eachother for advice, it was like clock work he;d call me almost every day on his way to and from work just to have some company on the car ride there! We are upbeat fun spontaneous people who live a fast single life, hes a pretty known guy, im a bit popular as well. not trying to sound cocky. We're both the type that does not like to answer to people, or be tied down. Not exactly w**** around, just dont like to have that burden there. He has had s** with quite a bit of people and me not very many at all.We're both broken individuals and been f***** over in relationships, so we're very much a like. We both like to be flirty, and thats probably what started all this. We both wanted s** but didnt want it talked about, drama, weirdness, etc. I'm not being cocky or concieded at all, but there are a good number of guys that would kill to hook up with me,(as well as a lot of girls that would kill to hook up with him) and that have tried to so many times, im just not that type of person. The only hoe-ish thing I've Ive done is hooked up with him . We have been doing this for a while, doing eachother favors, I have no feelings for him at all. Weather anyone wants to believe me or not, its hard for me to have feelings for someone, and its just not like that. I'm pretty sure he doesnt have feelings for me either. But our friendship had pretty much sank, Ive always liked that friendship because we both can relate to eachother so well because we;ve both been through the same s*** in life, before we hooked up, he came to me for pretty much everything, he'd drive an hour just to hangout cause he was having a bad day. and im one of the few that has even seen tht side of him, becuase hes not the type of person just to talk to anyone about his problems, hes the party everynight like a friggin king and everyone thinks hes just the s***, anyways, Now i never get a phone call, text, anything, just right before we hook up, which is fine by me, i just dont feel like he considers me a friend anymore, I hardly even know whats going on with him, i just miss that friendship bond we had. How do I get it back. And I promise there are no feelings there.

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  • It's not that he wants more. He probably feels awkward about it himself and doesn't know how to talk to you about it. I've been in his shoes before and he's probably more worried about your feelings. Or he may be interested in someone else as far as starting a relationship and he thinks that it may upset you.

  • Maybe he wants more? And because you don't, maybe he's backing away...just a thought. My suggestion - take s** off the table and go back to a platonic relationship. Put the boundaries back in your relationship. You know you both deserve relationships where you can feel something for the other person. Maybe you're just scared or something has happened to the both of you that prevent you from just letting go and trusting. Maybe you'll look into that deeper at some point. For now, sounds as though this friendship is more important than a booty call. Call him up and tell him you'd like to talk. And tell him that you miss the friendship. But also you need to make the effort to call or text him to get the ball rolling again.

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