Im afraid to give birth to a kid. The

Im afraid to give birth to a kid. The reason why is that the fact that its painful freaks me out. The whole problem is that im engaged to be married in 2 years.(yes two because right now i am not of age). and he most definitely wants kids. He thinks that I will change my mind once we settle down and actually marry,but when I dont,I wish to know what he would do? All in all,Im just afraid it will put a rip in our relationship and we will divorce when I most defintely tell him I wont be having kids...

Tags:
Report this

9 Comments

  • newest
  • oldest
  • most replies
  • most popular
  • Simply,don't have children then! Adopt!

  • WTF???? Why are you engaged at 16????? Do you live in the south???

  • u act as if its really that great.

  • You get to give birth too someone...all we have is peeing standing up........

  • C-section doesn't hurt, except for the needle in the spine. The next 2 weeks sure won't be comfortable but also means you don't have to wait 6 weeks for s**, and you're not stretched out. Sometimes you get tighter.

  • I am what I am. I have matured more than most girls in all aspects and he is the man that I want. Its just that I have that one fear of giving birth because its something unknown to me and from what Ive heard,its the makes u wish you were dead. Im just afraid that he will leave me for someone who DOES want to have his babies and that will absolutely make me go crazy.

  • If you're not even of age to get married and you already are having doubts because you don't want kids and he does, why don't you try BEING a kid while you can.

  • it's the next 18 yrs that are the real pain

  • the pain of the birth is not that bad. you forget about it

Account Login
Signup
Is this post inapropriate?
Is this comment inapropriate?
Delete this post?