I am a Christan, but I am definitely torn. I am girl, but I don't like men. I want to fall in love with the right women, but I am afraid because of my faith. I can't talk to my parents or my pastor about this. Not even my friends. I know everyone would be angry at me. I don't know what to do. I might just give up on romance fully. Because, it's not like I go chasing relationships, but I wouldn't mind one. So, I'm simply afraid.

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  • We are not allowed to judge as Christians, I believe that we only have the right to judge ourselves so your Pastor should not be angry with you. Rather grateful that you brought it forward to deal with it. Remember that the evil one is deceptive and cunning, he makes you feel great in situations that are against God's word, one of his recipes for destruction, I am speaking from experience here. Remember that we can't make God out to be what we want him to be, he is in accordance to the word. As a fellow Christian, seek advice from a true follower as those from the worldly ways will see no wrong in it. If your mind is made up, my writing this could be a waste of time, but I believe that you can be freed from this (as many have been) and move on to experience a great life and find true happiness.

  • Life is too short to be stifled by people and places that don't allow you to be who you are meant to be. At some point you need to do what makes you happy and be able to accept who you are. No one else is living your life. So you need to make decisions that impact you overall. Not sure how old you are, if you're in high school. But maybe wait until you are in college to explore your sexuality and also explore other places of worship that resonates with you. So you can still have a relationship with god (if that is important to you - which it sounds like it is) and a community that accepts you too. When you are ready to come out, you'll know. And then hopefully people accept you for you and who you love, because they love you.

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