I'm an awful daughter

Your not bad daughter. I have been having ** with my bestfriends dad and he is also my dad's friend. So I am probably a bad daughter and friend. and yes it gets worse my bestfriend and I make/out alot also.
Bt the fun part is noone knows. about anything. Well her dad know that her and I make out and he is cool with it, but she doesnt know he has been ** me and my dad doesnt know about any of it. Soo guess I'm bad.

First of all, you are not an awful daughter. I have been in an affair with a friend of my own father as well for several months now. Not really his best friend, but a close friend. I think my father is concerned because we have been seen together, but he does seem to suspect anything more than friendship. The ** is better than with anyone I have known and really I think it is for him too!

Don't be down on yourself, but do be careful.

No more footsie. Move in with him. If he's married, kick the ** out and take her place. It's time for action.

give up the play-acting and just ** marry him already!!! your dad will get over it.

Has it ever occurred to you that the reason neither of you seem to be able to sustain a relationship separate from one another is because you should be together?

I want to get with one of my dad's friends so hard, and I've been fantasizing about him like forever. Do you have any suggestions about how to try to do that?

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hi and thanks for your post. i have been having a relationship with my dads business partner for several years and my dad would ** if he ever found out. it started out as just ** and an exciting secret but in a very short time we were in love with each other. i love him so much that i want to have his babies whether or not he ever leaves his wife so i was wondering if you ever had a child with your guy or if you ever thought about doing that?

And when the random time comes where your father finds out about it is not a good one. I was in the same situation except with a female friend of a friend of my father and when he found out he confronted both of us and that little lying ** denied everything and said i came onto her when clearly it was her who came onto me. my dad gave me the worst lecture and yelling of my life. yea and then guess what. she comes to me 2 weeks later and asked if we can go at it again and i shut her down for lying like that. my main point is when you get knocked up or if your father finds out, your dad's best friend might likely deny everything that happened. yes your dad will talk with this friend and be very disappointed(or mad/upset) at him but he will be mad at you more and later in life; we go through this, but we will want our parent forgiveness for the things we did wrong in our past. we may not say out loud but inside, deep down inside we all want our parents forgiveness. So i say it's better to drop it than keep it going.

This makes me want to run out and start having an affair with my dad's friend Marcus who is so **!

God, you are scalding hot!

And by the way...........you are so NOT an awful daughter. Stop beating yourself up. The two of you obviously love each other or you wouldn't of stayed together so long. You couldn't of stayed together so long. I think the relationship is a thing of real beauty. Good luck with continuing it.

i did the same thing just bcuz my dad said not to and me and his freind dated in secret for almost 2 yrs but then the guys wife found out and it all blew up in our faces so i would tell you to be so so so so so so careful bcuz it can get realy bad for everybody

He came on to me shortly after I turned 18. We're about 10 years apart. He came home for lunch while I was babysitting his kids and they were napping. He started flirting expecting to get shut down, and I didn't shut him down. In the beginning I was hoping for a LTR, but ultimately decided we could never work in a serious relationship, especially since my dad would be furious. We always end up back together between relationships, though. No, I don't see myself ever marrying him.

Thanks for the input and background. I think it's a great relationship and I hope you can keep it going. One other question: is he married? Just curious..........

Separated. We both are. They've been on and off since before we got together. We've both had other relationships in between. We don't see each other when we're with someone else.

Thanks for sharing yourself here. This really is an amazing relationship and I admire both of you for starting and continuing it. Enjoy!

Tell us how it got started. Did you come on to him first or did he initiate it? Did you both know from the beginning that it would be such an LTR? Do you ever see yourself marrying the guy? What's the age difference? And how old when you started? It's so ** of a relationship.