Why a husband likes to see his wife with another lover
I never thought much about it till it finally happened. How do I wake up my wife and put fire in her love making passion ? How do I make her desire me more? How do I teach her things she does not want to learn about s** ? How do I make her a better lover for me ? How can a put a smile on her face ?
My wife is gorgeous in my opinion , she is a good wonderful loving woman , she is a fantastic mother . But she has never been filled with passion about s** with me , it is something she does as her obligation to the marriage.
She hates dirty words and refuses to say sexy things to make it fun , if someone is rude and uses filthy language I simply take her away from the idiot . But for years I wanted her to desire me and be filled with fun and brightness about making love .
I talked to my friend at work whom had been in a wife swap relationship for a long time , I asked him every possible question , but one thing he did was keep the names and locations of his swap couple a secret . He just used Generic terms . One of the biggest concerns was about loosing my wife if she were to get emotionally involved with another man , so if I tried this in an experiment there has to be absolute trust and secrecy .
I spent over a year looking before finally finding that special couple I could trust , it turned out they only lived 3 miles away and that we had known them all of our life. I was impressed by their openness as to conversation but very secretive in many other regards . My wife had known the couple also all of her life and the guy is extremely handsome and his wife equally beautiful.
So we began with just a friendship and to see if there was enough trust and respect to actually try an experimental wife swap and see the reaction from my wife . That went on for another year or so , and finally we did it . We were not exhibitionist like most people imagine . We simply invited them to spend the night , naturally after my wife finally agreed which took a lot of talking .
My wife did change for the better , the guy was exciting to her and stirred her feelings about s** . It had nothing to do with the size of his p**** or anything like that , or having wild multiple o****** , it was simply he was loving and caring and taught her what a man likes. And surprisingly my wife listened and did everything he asked . For me should would not even try but for him she would and did .
He was an extremely good kisser and taller and skinny compared to me , he was what she saw in her mind as a perfect lover . He taught her a dozen things that I can only dream of and never got her to even talk abut .
And she began to use that knowledge gained while she had s** with him , on me . His wife was a world of fun and did anything I asked of her , she was absolutely perfect .
So my wife choose to change her ways and become a better lover with a lot more Passion, I mean a lot more passion , she openly became aggressive sexually. And I love it