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Lesbian cheated
I met a girl who was dating a guy for 6 years and was unhappy. We met and we fell in love. She is not a lesbian though so it was hard to leave him. But during the weekend that they were breaking up they had ** and she got pregnant. She had her baby 4 months ago and we are together but not officially because she doesn't want to get the baby daddy ** off and we live far away. I do get doubts about being with her because of what happened and I lied and told her I don't. I do still love her though and she still is my best friend and I am excited about being with her and her baby soon.
Until she's honest with everyone in her life, you are not "officially" anything. Sorry. If she's an adult and actually broken up with the baby daddy, it shouldn't matter who she chooses to be with. But if she can't tell him or won't, then she's hiding you and you have to ask yourself why. When you're in love and with that person you want to shout it from the mountaintops and tell everyone. If you can't, then you seriously have to look at that. Be honest with her and your feelings. And ask her to be honest too. It's the only way this relationship has a true shot of real longevity. Good luck.