I am married and have had multiple affairs. I am in love with my wife and feel no guilt about the affairs, I simply hate keeping secrets from her. If I knew she would accept it, like I would accept anything she experiments with, I would tell her in a heartbeat. I bear no malice against her and do not view my actions as "unfaithful." I am merely experimenting and changing things up. I plan on kids with her, buying a house with her, massaging her feet when she gets home from a stressful day, and having sweet passionate s**. She satisfies me completely in bed, and in all other walks of life. She completes me. Very simply, I am curious about other women and what they are like. Why is that a crime? I would be fine with her doing it, why should we be condemned to one v***** or one p**** for the rest of our lives? My love for her will never die, and isn't that what marriage is truly about? When I asked her father for permission, he made me swear that our love would never die, and it won't. Till death do we part. I am merely having good experiences with close friends. Shes allowed to have guy-friends. Maybe they're having affairs too, but I don't really care. People should be entitled to the curious aspect of our lives. It is part of being human. I dont get why society bares such wrath towards extramarital relationships. I work at a children's hospital for Christ's sake. I am not a bad person, but many people would think I am, simply because have tried multiple partners post marriage. We dont criticize scientists for experimenting, so why should we criticize partners with interests?