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Never quite good enough
After keeping myself out of the dating pool for over three years due to betrayal and pain of a previous relationship, I finally put my toe back in. I dated a couple of different guys, and really connected with one. We went on several dates, and seemed to be getting serious...and then he said he met someone else.
This is all mundane, and stuff everyone goes through, but it brings back all my feelings of hopelessness, embarrassment, and never being good enough. I don't understand why people love dating, I HATE everything about it, because it makes me hate myself.
I kinda agree with ya , I've never wanted a girlfriend.... I wanted a wife. Someone to enjoy and experience life with not a moment or years of fleeting Iust ..but life long companion.....just , keep your eyes on the kingdom of God. And all things else will follow....when we try to do things our way...our hands break them, but our creator, what God has built cannot be destroyed
No one really likes dating. It can be a tortuous process. We have to endure many coffee dates and kiss some frogs before finding our prince. Look at it from a different perspective..not all no answers are a bad thing. If something is really meant to work, it will. If not, be thankful and just know that someone better awaits you. Do not take it personally when it doesn't work out. Stay positive.