Am I lesbian? Or bi?

Well, lately I've been having h**** feelings for woman. But I like guys too so I'm guessing I'm bisexual. But nobody knows. I'm afraid I'll lose all my friends if they know the truth but I don't like THEM. Ugh. I just want to try lesbian s** out and see where it goes but I don't want to be judged.

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  • Im 18 years old right now and have come to the conclusion that I am bisexual. When I was thirteen though, I met this 17 year old girl and we became really good friends. It wasnt until a sleepover one night that I realised that I was attracted to her sexually. At the time I didnt feel weird , I just figured that my body wants what my body wants. This same girl ended up spending the entire summer in my bed, along with another girl that I had met later. The summer later, I had my first boyfriend. My advice, wait until you have had experience with both male and female to decide your sexuality. I try not to care too much about what other people think of me. You always have the option of not revealing your sexuality.

  • The more s** you have, with as many different people as possible, the happier you will be in your life. Enjoy it all.

  • You didn't give your age, but you are probably just experimenting right now. It's more predominant among younger people. I must ask, does it really matter if you are lesbian or bi-sexual? It's just a label you are putting on yourself. It sounds like you are just a sexual being trying out things to figure out what you like. And if your friends can't handle it, then they really aren't your friends. When my daughter was going through her teens, I walked in on her and a female friend having s** in the den. We talked about it and I told her I only wanted her to do what felt right for her. She's since admitted that she's experimented with a few other girls and enjoyed it, but she's now married, with one child and another on the way. She may have a sexual encounters with females again, but it won't change who she is, and I refuse to put a label on her other than "daughter."

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