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It's been 7 years. I was 18 years old
It's been 7 years. I was 18 years old and I was at a family Christmas party. I was talking with my 14 year old cousin, and she told me that she had recently lost her virginity. I was curious about it, as I was still a virgin at the time. Then the shocker came: She had lost her virginity to another girl. I was incredibly turned on by this thought, and it was hard to hide that fact. It all happened really quickly, but before I knew it, my 14 year old cousin was going down on me.
She lives just a few miles from me, so I see her all the time. We've never done anything sexual with each other ever again. She brought it up the other day, and she apologized for "seducing" me. But seriously, an 18 year old should have had the where-with-all to stop their 14 year old cousin from doing such a thing. As far as I know, her and I are the only people to know about this. I feel bad for what happened.
Why should you feel bad? ** is not a crime. You enjoyed it, it was a one time experience with her... now move on. No one is expecting you to feel guilty.
Or maybe you don't feel guilty and you feel guilty about not feeling guilty. Don't, it just means you are sexually healthy if you can enjoy a sexual encounter. Age has nothing to do with it.
You were both young- guilt only serves you to let you know what not to do again- thats is , dont feel bad beyond that.
Most people I know have a similar story - sometihng just awkward at the beggining of sexuality - Let it go and move on - you have nothing more to feel bad about
You have nothing to be ashamed of. It sounds like you and her are doing fine. If nobody gets hurt, then it's OK. Even if it's taboo - you're still fine. Don't let the religious right try to guilt you.
You know, if you go back a hundred years this sort of thing was far more common (or at least not an extraordinary event.). The reality is that aside from birth, death (ok, and maybe the first time you power up your iPhone) ** is among the few incredibly potent mysteries of life. ** is larger than us, so we can be excused if once or occasionally we succumb to its heady perfume. the ** you describe wasn't done out of violence or a sadistic urge or manipulative. You fell before the towering goddess of desire. **. You were most certainly alive. Forgive yourself, and her, and embrace life.
Wow.You should have stopped her from doing what she did.You could have gone to jail for that.Having ** with an underaged girl is illegal and IMMORAL.Having ** with a family member is IMMORAL and just plain ** THE ** UP.I understand you being a dumb 18 year old and thinking with your "little head" but **,you could have gotten a jail sentance and a criminal record and have to register as a ** offender for the rest of your life for what you did !!!!!!
I had a sexual experience with my cousin also. Mine happened at age 12. I lived with terrible guilt over it. I guess the best thing to remember is that we all make bad choices. I have chosen to forgive myself and move on.
at least you realized what you did and the severity of it, rather than letting it consume you and turn you into something awful. i think you should begin to forgive and forget this event.
Where the ** do you get that mistletoe?
omggggggg ewwwwwww
have you ever heard of **!?!?!?!
Dont feel bad man. I went down on my 15 yr old niece before. I feel bad about that but she is crazy about it. She constantly wants ** my **. And for a 15 yr old Shes ** good at it. ** im going to **.
** man ** is just that hit it dude i mean she's not ur sis so tear it up age is just a number
y'know, as long as she is not a real close cousin than i guess its ok..... but hey i agree with that one guy, keep her as a ** buddy but wait till she is of age
dude ive f***** a cuz before. stop with the feeling sorry and weird and just experiment!!!
Check out these resources which are for people who struggle with homosexuality...Joe Dallas, www.lovewonout.com,
Exodus International, Ann Paulk...good luck
oh yeah... the old "i was talking to my cousin and suddenly she was sucking my **" thing.
always catches me by surprise too.