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My boyfriend is really sad all the time
This guy that I have been seeing recently is really cute, and I like him and he likes me, but this is my first relationship ever (I'm 16 but just really under experienced), and I'm just looking for a light, fun relationship. But this guy has extreme baggage. And I didn't think I would mind, but its hard being with someone who's sad all the time, and is so depressed they don't even want to talk to you or make attempts to hang out. He feels bad about, he really does, so I don't want to be mean, but some days I just wish he would actually show interest in me. Or actually try to see me. But its hard for me to get what he's going through, so yeah.
It sounds like he's suffering from depression. By that I mean he has a chemical imbalance in his brain which prevents him from maintaining a positive emotional equilibrium. That's why he has no energy and can't seem to motivate himself to do the simplest tasks. He is not capable of maintaining a relationship right now. No matter how much you give he won't be able to give back. You'll end up exhausting yourself and ultimately resenting him. This isn't something you can help him with, he needs to see a doctor.
I hate Chinese people with a passion. They're everywhere with that pathethic dough face and small eyes and small beady eyes and even more horrible accents. never in my life have I met a more lowly, cunning, cheating, heartless, humanless, greedy ** in my life. I have good reasons to hate the Chinese. 1) They think they are superior. If you cant speak their language even if their are in YOUR country, they wont accept you. UH HELLO??? You are in MY country So YOU have to speak MY language ** yellow skinned **. 2) The females of these species is unbelievably shallow and stupid. My Goodness, I have never girls doll themselves up like that till they look like a blow up doll. No probs with the guys I bet dont they have anything better to do? Preening on makeup and eyes and whatever not? Wont any Chinese girl simply wear a sweatpants and shirt and for crying out loud be NORMAL FOR ONCE! I have only seen Chinese girls put so much effort into this, Caucasian girls are better in looking natural. African American women are beautiful why cant anyone see that? They like this pale skinned waif skinny ** who looks underaged. 3) They bring sickness to others. Swine Flu, Bird Flu(Avian Flu?), SARS, and God knows what else. Can they NOT look at an animal and think whether they would look good better as soup or stir fried??? Why are they eating everything??? I bet if given a chance, they would eat ** as well. 4) About animals, THEY HAVE NO ANIMAL CRUELTY ACTS in China! So yeah, you can see a man skinning a dog alive at the curbside and people would encourage the man. These people have no hearts. 5) All goods from China are questionable. **, have you read the news recently? They distributed FAKE EGGS in Malaysia. WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT FAKE EGGS WHEN THE PRODUCTION OF EGGS IN MALAYSIA HAD ALWAYS BEEN OPTIMUM??? The milk scandal, the writing utensils, their handphones and ** anything that was made in China - im sire as ** not gonna but it. These people care on
He needs to talk to or see a mental health doctor(psychologist,psychiatrist) and at 16,please don't make his problems your own. just advise him to see a dr and find some other fun guy,you are only dating or just starting to.You may feel guilty but such is life,if you leave him alone,you would have done him,yourself and your parents a favor.I am an older guy,I work in mental health and have a pretty good idea what I am saying without using jargon.Best of luck.