i sometimes take 20 - 60 bucks from my
i sometimes take 20 - 60 bucks from my husband's wallet without telling him. That's THEFT but i can't completely stop. our accounts (and our money) is separate, and he has way more than i do. he is not greedy or controlling, and i'm pretty sure he doesn't notice. sometimes i ask if i can take some, and he always says yes, but i hate feeling too dependent so i steal.
i feel awful now.
but he will ALWAYS have more money than I, and he does not seem to want to merge accounts, although he knows and I know that I am pretty frugal and don't waste money.