I just found out that before we were
I just found out that before we were together, my girlfriend was raped by a friend from home. It has completely changed the way she feels about her body and sexuality; they are now ugly and hurtful to her. I love her endlessly, but this is obviously putting a strain on the relationship. She is completely in denial, and has convinced herself it was a dream. I am the only person she has ever told. She will not call a helpline or see someone. What can I do to convince her to seek help? Or what can I say to comfort her and make her realize that she is truly the most beautiful woman I have ever seen? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.