Stay or Go? HELP
I've been married for 7 1/2 years. It's been a wonderful and happy marriage until about 6 months ago. My husband started i.v. Use of heavy illicit drugs and stopped being the man and father he was. All intimacy stopped, all bills fell behind, he didn't spend time with myself or 2 children anymore, and we began fighting daily. When i realized what the problem was and how bad it was, I begged him to stop and get help. I tried really hard to keep things together by myself while trying to help him but since he has been my best friend all these years, I had a hard time coping. During this time I reconnected with an old friend from school. He has went out of his way the last few weeks to make my life easier and better. He's paid bills, helped out, gave advice , listened to me cry and b****, and stood by me as I kicked my husband out and then let him back in. All we have been so far is best friends but he came here tonight drunk and told me he loves me. I don't know what to do because I love my husband and can't see letting him go but I think I love my friend as well and can't imagine being without him. I know keeping them both isn't an option and wouldn't be fair to anyone...... So what do I do?